View Full Version : Swinging clubs in Japan!?!
2003-04-27, 06:15 PM
Has anyone been to these establishments?
Apparently they are all over. Just curious!
2003-04-29, 12:19 AM
Yes, and yes they are all over with many varieties catering to many different tastes.
2003-04-29, 07:02 PM
are they fun?
What do you do there?
How much do they cost?
2003-04-29, 09:16 PM
weren't you the guy complaining about how weak Japanese woman were and how much you dislike them .... in whcih case, doubt you would like these clubs because, suprise suprise, they have Japanese women in them...
2003-04-29, 10:05 PM
Hey I like J-girls... I just dont reccomend them as a life partner! ;D
2003-07-08, 09:20 PM
You sound like a pretty miserable catch yourself. Nothing worse than a man who whinges like a b*tch.
2003-07-09, 07:10 AM
This b*tch would kick your austrailian ___! lickety split!
2003-07-09, 11:56 AM
Okay, relax kiddies!
Yes, they're out there, quite a few of 'em. However, gaijin have about a 1-in-a-million-and-a-half chance getting in. Only the filipino/korean/thai ones are more accomodating and even then for the most part they turn away gaijin.
Westsan I have a suggestion - why not cut off the money supply to your wife which will make her work to earn some... would address the main issue of no support/get up and go from her?
2003-07-09, 06:06 PM
Well, like some dance clubs do, they screen for looks/attractiveness, and they are also very interested in whether you can speak Japanese or not. Some clubs are going for the international feel, others are not. And as jguylover said, there are lots of different tastes/age groups/fetishes.
What you do in there is; sit around, watch people, play with people, relax and drink. Just like a normal night club but sex instead of dancing.
Cost about \10 000 (per couple) your first time and then \5-6000 each time after that. One free drink included.
2003-07-09, 06:19 PM
Are there any in the nagoya area?
2003-07-09, 10:43 PM
HEY Phil>> Wrong thread. But I will tell you that I like the family man aspect too. It's a blast. So it is not in my interest to attempt that... and then again that kind of stuff does motivate well though. I prefer to starve myself and jumpstart that way.
I guess those swingning clubs are rather busy with gaijin gals though! Is that right Jotty?
2003-07-09, 11:56 PM
I've never seen another gaijin girl at any of those clubs, and it's fairly rare to see a gaijin guy...... pretty much 99.9% Japanese. That's why I go there, (^^)
2003-07-10, 01:58 AM
umm, dont know how many of you have actaually been as some of your comments are a little off mark.
1)Yes, the swinging scene here is big and very relaxed (apart form sex freinds doing nampa... they make everyone tense)
2) gaijin are welcome but you wont get in w/o a partner and that partner needs to be J. Also, bring protection..it is supplied but a gentlemans touch works wonders...
3) if you do have the privelige to go, make sure you respect the ground rules. Personly Im fed up wz seeing some stupid ____ **** everyone else off coz they don't realize that the couples there are just that..couples! we are there because we have total trust in each other and enjoy watchimg ech other get off ... no more, no less
but if you can follow the few "rules" and you know how to behave..damn, THEY ARE FUN!
2003-07-10, 11:47 AM
My friend and I are both gaijin and we got in on the strength of my japanese (or breasts possibly). My japanese isnt that great, but at the same time, I translated the rules for my boy, communicated well with the Master, we made a good impression and it was all fine in both places we have been to (so far). We are both pretty non-threatening looking people. Met other foreign guys in both places, but no other girls.
Jguylover, you go girl!!!
Canadain J: Dunno man, probably! Why dont you get your girl 'n go find out?
2003-07-11, 01:05 AM
I happen to be female, and I am inquiring because I want to go with my Canadian bf.
Which brings me back to the first post. Does anyone know of any in Nagoya? Or, how would I find one? I do speak a fair amount of Japanese, So im not too worried about that..
2003-07-11, 01:35 AM
I guess we just go to different places, 'cause I've very rarely seen other gaijin guys, and NO gaijin girls in my 3 years of experience at these places. Out of curiosity, where do you go, if you don't mind telling?? I go to a couple of places in Shinjuku, and one in Roppongi, plus various couple parties. ie. Vanilla.
Nagoya, I really don't know about it, haven't been there. I suggest you guys do a web search, or pick up some magazines like "night walker" "manzoku" etc. If you can read Japanese, you sould be able to find ads for such places.
2003-07-11, 04:18 AM
I know the Roppongi place I think.
Is that at the base of the hill? So that place is for real huh?
I inquired a looooooooooooong time ago but it was way expensive then.
actually I just wanted to peep probably though :D
So manboy? it is not an orgy? rather voyeurism?
2003-07-11, 09:08 PM
Jguylover, I dont mind telling off this board if you wanna mail me, and im curious about the Vanilla parties...
One club was a free-for-all orgy style, and the other was a very strict couples stay and swap together, no wandering off solo kinda thing.
2003-07-11, 09:20 PM
do they have floggings?
2003-07-11, 09:59 PM
What the heck is a flogging?
-- pardon my stupidity
2003-07-11, 11:15 PM
To beat or strike with a rod or whip; to whip; to lash; to chastise with repeated blows.
Can I bring my highly trained turtle Norbert?
2003-07-12, 12:21 PM
flogging...That is exactly what I was hoping it wasnt.
I like to flog with my e*tremity. but that is the extent of it.
2003-07-14, 11:27 AM
join my yahoo group: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ero_tokyo/
we can talk about it there, and you can even mail me from there. (I don't want to post my email add on this board, I think you can understand why ) You have to apply to become a member so I'll approve you. We definately need more female members!
2005-01-31, 06:40 PM
couples who like to have sex with other couples and mostly watch their husband/wife get off with someone else's husband/wife
its just like swapping partners for a sex session
2005-01-31, 06:52 PM
Can I bring my highly trained turtle Norbert?
Hey, I have a highly trained turtle named Norbert, too. He claims that the name was given to him by his long lost mother. This seems too coincidental for my liking. A highly trained turtle named Norbert, who digs Swinger Clubs, and loves being flogged (what the hell does he care, he's got a shell). Something smells terrapin to me! :(
Is he unavailable on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday? Those are our Turtle Love days.
I think he has turned turtle on the both of us here. Why not invite him to this Club Vanilla, and we can arrange a Coming Out party. Boy, will his head disappear inside that shell something fast.
Okay, get back to me on this.
PS How do you sex a turtle, anyway?
2005-01-31, 06:54 PM
I think turtle is a code word for something that pokes outta your bum hole??? not sure heheh
2005-01-31, 06:59 PM
The only thing that pokes out of any holes is his little green head, when I meet him at the station. He gives such a sweet turtilian smile. KAWAIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
The rest of the relationship is purely platonic, I assure you. He fills a void in me, as I in him.
I feel so betrayed. OHHHHHHHHHHHHH Norbert, how could you!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2005-02-01, 12:00 PM
don't ask me, I aint into that freaky sh@t
2005-02-01, 12:07 PM
Are you serious. People actually let their wives/husbands have sex with other people? Plese let me know of some of these places so I can stay far away from them.
Is anyone else reading "Please, tell me where these places are, since I want some housewife booty."? I mean, let's face it, who doesn't know what a swinger is? I'm not saying I'm into that, but I think everyone I know knows what that is.
2005-02-01, 12:18 PM
maybe he doesn't know, isn't he the guy that just wants to get married, no matter the costs and isn't into casual sex or anything....maybe he's really religious and hasn't heard of these devilish types before