yashka
2003-07-17, 01:28 AM
i gonna try to be short... also forgive me if my english will be a bit boring coz i'm french speacker and i learned by myself...
about 4 years ago (i'm 30 now, she's 25) i start a pen-pal with a Jgirl, i live in geneva, and she's in osaka.
but when we start to email each other she was in london.
last year she invite me to visit japan, that what i did, should i specify we didnt really planned to be a couple once? so more or less five days before i left (i spend about three weeks) we finally share the same bed... cried a lot at the airport and then continue to exchanging letters of email. end of story? not yet...
after that i keep thinking about be with her, whatever where, japan or switzerland, both was ok for me. but she keep silent about this point and once just answer "i dont think so darling" so u could imagine how much i felt dissapointed about my misenderstood... but i keep it cool and decided to stay in same kind of relation as before i came to japan and not losing a friend. i get a girlfriend, she get a boyfriend, end of story? not yet...
just 4 month later i broke up with my swiss girlfriend, and the same day, sachi resent me an email, like "could be fun to live together..." i bring it like a good hazard sign and felt more than glad to read it. I came back this winter in japan and we spent a month together, we went in naeba snowboarding, in osaka, kobe etc...
when i saw her again the first time i was surprised about she put some wheight, was a bit difficult to accept for me, (i love yasete girls) but our sex didn't changed as well, so everything was fine... she almost finish her univesity and after this holidays i went back to switzerland where i work currently as graphic designer.
then she finish her university, get the diploma and went a month in geneva.
she had fun, even if she dont speak any word of french (who was her major at university...) but she's more fluent in english than me and in geneva some foreigner stay more than three or ten years without use any word of french (obviouse but true) also at this point of the story i've think it would'nt be any kind of problem about stay in switzerland. i've working hard, she join a japanese company who care about stock-option, and she worked like a crazy for some monkey monney...
so i just arrived here one month ago and everything is every days changeable... sometime i feel really depressed, she's working a lot as quite unbelievable and my level of japanese seems growing very slowly (should i learn some english instate?)
but whatever i try to hang on... i try to learn some japanese every days (i started in switzerland 6 month ago) and in same time i've learned about how much is difficult to get a friend here... i think it's gonna be quite impossible for me to get any job here with or without a visa (actualy i got a tourist visa) also the kenkon party is not for tomorrow. but she seems affraid about switzerland with or without wedding, she think more or less the same as me for geneva, no job, no friends, no hope. and she want to be independant and never have to claim about my monney to get anything... so... end of story???? i hope not... that's why any advice from skilled gaijin will be highly appreciated... okini by advance and sorry for this too long text.
yashka.
have a look at my page www.yashka.ch there is some picture of us
about 4 years ago (i'm 30 now, she's 25) i start a pen-pal with a Jgirl, i live in geneva, and she's in osaka.
but when we start to email each other she was in london.
last year she invite me to visit japan, that what i did, should i specify we didnt really planned to be a couple once? so more or less five days before i left (i spend about three weeks) we finally share the same bed... cried a lot at the airport and then continue to exchanging letters of email. end of story? not yet...
after that i keep thinking about be with her, whatever where, japan or switzerland, both was ok for me. but she keep silent about this point and once just answer "i dont think so darling" so u could imagine how much i felt dissapointed about my misenderstood... but i keep it cool and decided to stay in same kind of relation as before i came to japan and not losing a friend. i get a girlfriend, she get a boyfriend, end of story? not yet...
just 4 month later i broke up with my swiss girlfriend, and the same day, sachi resent me an email, like "could be fun to live together..." i bring it like a good hazard sign and felt more than glad to read it. I came back this winter in japan and we spent a month together, we went in naeba snowboarding, in osaka, kobe etc...
when i saw her again the first time i was surprised about she put some wheight, was a bit difficult to accept for me, (i love yasete girls) but our sex didn't changed as well, so everything was fine... she almost finish her univesity and after this holidays i went back to switzerland where i work currently as graphic designer.
then she finish her university, get the diploma and went a month in geneva.
she had fun, even if she dont speak any word of french (who was her major at university...) but she's more fluent in english than me and in geneva some foreigner stay more than three or ten years without use any word of french (obviouse but true) also at this point of the story i've think it would'nt be any kind of problem about stay in switzerland. i've working hard, she join a japanese company who care about stock-option, and she worked like a crazy for some monkey monney...
so i just arrived here one month ago and everything is every days changeable... sometime i feel really depressed, she's working a lot as quite unbelievable and my level of japanese seems growing very slowly (should i learn some english instate?)
but whatever i try to hang on... i try to learn some japanese every days (i started in switzerland 6 month ago) and in same time i've learned about how much is difficult to get a friend here... i think it's gonna be quite impossible for me to get any job here with or without a visa (actualy i got a tourist visa) also the kenkon party is not for tomorrow. but she seems affraid about switzerland with or without wedding, she think more or less the same as me for geneva, no job, no friends, no hope. and she want to be independant and never have to claim about my monney to get anything... so... end of story???? i hope not... that's why any advice from skilled gaijin will be highly appreciated... okini by advance and sorry for this too long text.
yashka.
have a look at my page www.yashka.ch there is some picture of us