Sexy Gaijin Women

[millie-ann]

Ahh the eastern european women have invaded...and suddenly they are being chased by J boys and G boys...and we Western Euros/US/Can etc etc are even more out in the cold than ever!! No jealousy..honest. These Delicious looking Eastern Euro hotties are usually stick thin..and er..well shouldn't be bitchy...but lets say share many similar traits with their J-Gyaru counterparts..Ahh it's a hard life finding a bit of passion on these shores and my pals and I were wondering after a Long discussion if you would kindly enlighten us on the following questions....

Boys...We just gotta know...
1. Is skinny, ala Japanese girls, the most preferred body shape? Why?
2. Why are so many of you NOT interested in Gaijin girls out here?
3. What is it about Japanese/EE airheads that so so interest you?
4. Japanese guys: what type of Gaijin women are you most attracted to?

Lets not get into the "inside is more beautiful" ramble...that is quite obvious...but at the outset, pure physical attraction is really what matters, especially if you only get to meet new members of the opposite sex on nights out in town. Don't you reckon?

No judgements here...just wondering!



Post Edited (02-12-04 15:09)

[Welesley]

1. Not all J girls are skinny
2. I have never had a Gaijin girl give me a second or first look in Japan
3. Not all J girls are airheads - my wife is a doctor

[jguylover]

can I comment?? As I am bisexul I think I can add something...

1. too skinny isn't good, I love girls with curves!! Even slightly chubby is good, as long as they are fit and not flabby, if you know what I mean. As well, really skinny girls tend to be small chested. Not that small is bad, but I'm just not at all turned on by fried eggs.

2. I'm mostly into Jgirls. . I don't know why, but even back home I was attracted to guys/girls with dark hair and brown eyes. Occasionally I find blondes attractive, but I'm mostly into very sweet looking, round-faced girls if you nkow what I mean, and Caucasians tend to have sharper features. I actually do have a caucasian girlfriend now, but funny enough she has brown eyes and light brown hair!

3. I can't stand airhead girls! I was hit on by a VERY cute Japanese lesbian at a gay event, but she was SO dumb I couldn't even talk to her. It was such a turn off, I didn't even give her my phone number. Personally, I think guys who are into airheads are simply insecure...have to feel superior to a girl in order to not be intimidated by her. They get off on feeling all masculine and macho around her.

But if they meet up with a strong girl........uh oh! She's not fooled, we can see right through that macho BS.

[Unky B]

I can understand your frustration. Maybe my answers will make you feel a bit better.

1. True, not all J girls are skinny, but they tend to be. I'm not so into that look. I like a little meat on the bones. The thing the J girls got going for them in the looks department is real nice skin and delicate features. But not so much going on anywhere else.

2. I certainly am interested in gaijin girls!! woot woot! Come talk to me, lonely gaijin ladies!!

3. True, not all J girls are airheads, but again, they tend to be! Those types absolutely do not interest me at all. In general, J girls irritate me to no end. I just about puke when a chick I'm talking to claps her hands and says "sugoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooi". Every once in a while I meet one who's got a good head on her shoulders, though.

4. I am not qualified to answer this question. Not Japanese and all....

Hope that helps.

[Ney]

1. Is skinny, ala Japanese girls, the most preferred body shape? Why?
Few curves dont go astray but ill take them skinny or curvy.....to an extent.

2. Why are so many of you NOT interested in Gaijin girls out here?
Like you said im more interested in the Eastern Europeans, South East Asians and South Americans. The rest are generally ugly, fat, hung up etc. etc.. Simple as that.

3. What is it about Japanese/EE airheads that so so interest you?
They are easy to get in the sack.

4. Japanese guys: what type of Gaijin women are you most attracted to?
No comment.

[Bluedog]

"I just about puke when a chick I'm talking to claps her hands and says "sugoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooi". "

Depends when she does it. If you've just dropped your trousers, no problem. If you've just demonstrated your knowledge of japanese by saying "mizu kudasai" to the waiter, then, yeah, it's pretty annoying.

1. Is skinny, ala Japanese girls, the most preferred body shape? Why?

It's kind of nice to look at, but there aint no way those hips are going to have my children.

2. Why are so many of you NOT interested in Gaijin girls out here?

Rarely meet them.

3. What is it about Japanese/EE airheads that so so interest you?

If she can barely talk, then she can't talk back.

Just kidding. I'm not actually attracted to airheads of any variety.

[markosonlines]

1. Is skinny, ala Japanese girls, the most preferred body shape? Why?
Go to the beach. Go to a niteclub. Go to an onsen. Watch tv. Read glossy magazines. I see a lot of beautifully thin, elegent women in this country, many in their thirties, who still have it. I think slim gaijin are beautiful too, but many(like us gaijin guys) quickly get fat, or were already, and we can't show you to our mates, make good home porn, or show good homemade porn to our mates.

2. Why are so many of you NOT interested in Gaijin girls out here?
See Q1. Also, one should always try the local delicacies when away from home.

3. What is it about Japanese/EE airheads that so so interest you?
They're too stupid to notice the camera.

4. Japanese guys: what type of Gaijin women are you most attracted to?
I'm guessing, but probably the skinny ones who like good homemade porn.

Markos

[buds]

seriously?

[the dude]

millie-ann baby,

The Eastern European girls are hotties, but they are dishonest, gold-diggers! Japanese girls are nice but like everyone says, are too impressed by little things we do. My off-the-chart-hot Western European wife and I will show ya a good time, so feel free to mail away!
Lookin forward to showing you what ya been missin babe!

[millie-ann]

Heh heh!!

Thanks Jguy lover, Unky B, Ney, Bluedog, Markosonline, Dudie for answering the questions and not taking this too seriously...

Jguy lover: Sounds like you have a good time out here! good for you..I wonder is it easy meeting Gay Japanese girls..are many of them really gay or just lipstick lesbians...doesn't that ____ you off...I often get women asking if they can feel various body parts...HA! I was so shocked at first but have got used to it now..is a bit wierd though..

Unky B... aah a real man...nice to know you appreciate a bit of flesh...

Ney...hmm yes you bring up the whole fat..ugly thing...well I have to say I have seen alot of overweight white gals out here...I mean really really overweight...also seen lots who can't be arsed with make-up and all that...that is fine... but it is quite obvious that the guys out here like the made up, well turned out ladies..

Bluedog...why is skinny nice to look at.?....what about curves and boobs and hips?

Markos...heh heh! funny guy..obviously sowing all your oats!..you bring up Porn...well I have heard that the "oh this is so painful and the no... no(but really yes yes but I can't show that I am really enjoying this)" squeaky pips of the Japanese girls
is not half as appealing as the world shattering screaming grunting yes! yes! of the Westerners...just what I heard..and maybe saw...

Dude...darling.. well your offer is very tempting...where are you located?

AND....

Welesley...mangive me strength...did I say all Japanese girls are airheads or skinny!! I said GYARU...obviously pointing to a TYPE of Japanese girl that ALOT of
Gboys are seen out with.
Obviously there are also lots of skinny gaijin girls too!
I am very happy for you that your wife is a Doctor...I too have many great intelligent Japanese girl-friends including Doctors...but there is a type here that deserves to be it's own species in this country and it is fascinating to see them in action...were they in the west we all know how they would be seen and viewed...and thus..they are interesting to observe.

Bud: "seriously?.." er....no ..you're just too cool mate...heh!heh!


The EE girls are new to us..as kids they were part of a different world..the enemy..we didn't know them and we stereotyped them ala babushkas and all. Turns out they are major hotties and again they come here and hang around with old Japanese men...and well yes they take real care of themselves and look bloody gorgeous..and when they walk into a bar...heads turn and it is great...don't get me wrong...I'm happy for them....tis just a little hard to compete with them though....



Post Edited (02-14-04 10:52)

[Unky B]

hahaha here goes the dude again and his OFF THE CHART WIFE.

Get over yourself, dude.

[Ambient]

Yo, new member and all, wassup people? Anyways, on with the questions.
1)Depends on your definition of skinny really. Stick thin ain't cool. But neither is fat ___. I like a girl who is well proportioned. It really depends on what the girl looks like. I've had girlfriends who've weighed everything from 98lbs to 150lbs. So, it's really an objective thing and not a hard and fast rule.
2)Why? Do you know any decent ones available? Most seem to be taken, at least the ones I'd go for. The single ones seem to be unattractive or have attitude issues. I've nothing against non-japanese women, they are just typically less available.
3)I've only been here for two weeks, so I really haven't come across any "airheads" not only that but I don't speak japanese so i really wouldn't know an airhead anyways. As far as Eastern European women go, I tend to avoid them as they typically have poor attitudes. Typically bitchy and concieted.[sic]
4)I'm not japanese, I'm American. I tend to be attracted to girls I have chemistry with. My last girlfriend back home was an average looking girl. Not hot, not ugly, but cute. The thing was, we had chemistry. There was that spark that kept us interested in each other no matter what. That's what I look for. Do we work together? Do we have something intangible? Not just "is she hot and will she suck my ____."
So, in conclusion, all I want is a girl that I hit it off with, and has an intangible quality that makes us attracted to each other.

Hmmm....what kind of hypertags does this board use?



Post Edited (02-13-04 12:33)

[Michael]

Actually, I think all the non-airhead Japanese girls are over here, in the States. Out of five Japanese women I know who are married to Americans, none are the subservient type. All have sharp tongues and are quite quick-witted. One works as a waitress and oft-times makes the payroll for the employees of her n'e'er-do-well surfer California "contractor" husband. Another was forced to move from Hawaii (not too far out of her comfort zone) to rural Missouri (quite far out, I would imagine); she has left with the child to return to Japan. Her husband, a good friend of mine, is an unrepentant and unrelenting, controlling, manipulative ___. A third is my ex-girlfriend/mistress, who got into marathon-running and got tired of bailing out her get-rich-quick-with-stupid-ideas husband, a former ESL teacher in Japan whose greatest goal is to retire and "learn." She broke it off with me and stayed with her husband out of some sort of maternal instinct, I can only imagine. Keep him fed and bathed and all.

A fourth took hold of an ex-Navy Ala Moana playboy and promptly snipped his 'nads. He is indeed a pitiable sight. The fifth, well, is a B.S. in Marine Biology (Hawaii-Hilo) and married some sort of backstage technician who works in the burgeoning and wildly popular Honolulu theatre scene (Broadway-look out!). She is possessed of the sweetest smile, long, slim legs, huge breasts (well, maybe 34-C), massively huge and gorgeous brown eyes, and carries herself with more grace and poise than Grace Kelly or Audrey Hepburn ever did. Still shiver when I think about her.

We see your giggly, irritating j-girls here; love 'em all, God bless 'em. F***-me shoes and all. (With those platforms, one need only rush up, knock the wearer down, and she's helpless, so the joke goes.)

I love j-girls because they are not the subservient, submissive caricatures I thought they were. Sure, some are idiots. Go to any mall or club in Houston, Chicago, Seattle or Charlotte, however. American women exhibit the penultimate in stupidity, vapidness, ignorance, sloth, greed, self-righteousness, hypocrisy, materialism, idol-worship, selfishness and vanity. All other women (aside from the hairy French) emulate their American sisters. To their detriment. Give me a foreigner, even a Canadianne, any day. American men love asiatic women simply because they're not American. Think about it. Simple logic.

[Bugboy]

Hello there fellow party animals, Thierry Lamule, male gigolo here...

1. Is skinny, ala Japanese girls, the most preferred body shape? Why?
2. Why are so many of you NOT interested in Gaijin girls out here?
3. What is it about Japanese/EE airheads that so so interest you?
4. Japanese guys: what type of Gaijin women are you most attracted to?

Well, well, I guess someone is in need for some professional advice....
Never fear...............

answer to question 1)

I sense a good taste for eupemism.........you probably meant................ "tight"...........I agree!

answer to question 2)

Not true, Gaijin women are very frequent customers of mine in japan. They usually pay well and are usually full of energy.

answer to question 3)

They are rather adventurous and always up for new performance....

answer to question 4)

I am unable to divulgue my preferences (professional reasons). Thierry Lamule is open to all sorts of customers.

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[millie-ann]

So Michael...
I saw some of your other posts too...and you REALLY got a thing for the J-Lady..and I wonder how did it start and do you appreciate other nationalities except for asiatic ie..black women, hispanic, Indian, etc.


Of course it is all a question of personal taste...I know that...I have friends who are madly into black girls or mediteranean girls or chinese girls etc,

Saying that..do you fancy Chinese or Korean girls in the same obsessive way you fancy the J-lady.

and erm...ouch...that was a pretty harsh attack on the American woman...well I am not from the US...so I cannot imagine them to be so awful...or is it your past speaking...

I have never seen a hairy french women..ever..but the Germans... well...

Hi Bugboy
Nah..I'm definately not in need of pro advice...but thanks anyway heh heh! I am getting a sense that J-girls (j-lady to Michael) are liked very much for their er...sexual habits...whats
the difference?...er"tightness" aside...

[the dude]

millie-ann,

Just moved up from Kansai for work (in Ginza) live near Tsudanuma though. I'm 6'1 175 pounds, blue eyes & brown hair. I'm from Cali and my better half is still by far the best looking girl I've ever seen . You'll never look at any of those Eastern European, Japanese etc. without thinking you've seen the best girl there is out there!
Lookin forward to meetin ya baaaaabe!

[millie-ann]

Ambient.

Hi..thanks for your input and I think you hit the nail....
That old chemistry thing is so so so underrated...there is NOTHNG that matches a moment when you catch a special someone's eye...or when you are talking with him/her and there is an electricity that is just so powerful and your skin tingles and you get butterflies....and the connection is so so INTENSE and you just want to touch him/her and that is all you can think of....it has happenned only 2 or 3 times to me....with the most unlikely of men.

I have high standards...unfortunately...but when the chemistry hits it has always been with guys who fall well short of those initial standards..and I didn't give a s**t!!

HOWEVER....that is a special case...I don't think it happens that much..and so physical attraction is the variable that eventually matters matters...in a place like this where supply is short..(well..not for you blokes!!)

That is why I ask all these questions...it is fascinating to me in a place like Japan where sex is everywhere you go...yet so many of us Gaijin gals are finding it difficult to find some real passion or love or partnership.

[millie-ann]

Dude,
Darling...seems that you left me behind...

Very tempting with the stats...Mmmm...

You are REALLY hyping your wife up here...are you sure I won't be disappointed or actually intimidated is probably a better word!!....
So..er..what's she like..?

[the dude]

millie-ann,

Left ya behind? You're in Kansai?
Dissappointed, not a chance! Intimidated? Nah, even though she is as hot as she is, she's not in to her self at all. She's very sweet and friendly, so don't you worry about a tang! All of the "...us Gaijin gals are finding it difficult to find some real passion or love or partnership."- days are over! You finally struck gold babe!
What are ya doin in Japan anyway?

[tryfan]

hey dude.......give her the URL so she can check out the two of you in those tasteless videoclips from the wedding chapel in Kobe.

[the dude]

what do you mean tasteless? You didn't dig that wedding advertisement?

[buds]

okay! i thought someone was just playing a trick or something -- the four posts was making me nervous
met an exchange student -- my japanese teacher made us go to meet these kids... she said they were getting antsy and wanted to meet americans their own age...
as soon as i walked into the room, i was like shwooom!
they were all kinda cute, but there was this special one, with the mary tyler moore cut. she had the bang, pow, and zoom. i sat down at one of the tables, and they all started asking me questions... but SHE asked me what age i was. i'm like "oh, you done messed up now girl! you getting all the pasta and ravioli!" i was planning to make my move as soon as we were walking out, in case i got busted and ki hi hi... but she beat me to it, when we stood up, she grabbed my arm, and asked me for MY EMAIL. *DMX yell* WHAAAT!!! i done had girls come over to my house and jump me while watching amp, but i thought japanese girls was supposed to be quiet! ohhh now! we went and met once more with other people before she left town to go back... but she emailed EVERY week, except holidays, for TWO YEARS.
if i hadn't taken so long to get over my fear of flying (she gave up and got a native brother), who knows what would have happened?
that's some determination -- she still writes every now and then to see how i'm doing, if i got married... etc. last may, while i was in tokyo, she came from saitama to meet me at the airport and gave me a yukata as a present.
being in a relationship takes commitment, understanding, and wanting to STAY TOGETHER, something i don't see a lot of americans doing nowadays.

now a generalization: gaijins act crappy/snobby/stuck-up in Japan, like somebody has unearthed their buried treasure or something :( so i ignore them before they can do it to me :)
it's probably wrong :(
but it feels better than the alternative :D rejection.
if walking to the store to get some tofu, and somebody else walking past from the opposite direction says "hey, daily yamazaki is closed today! but lawson is open!" do i keep walking to dy? or do i start shopping at lawsons?
what i'm saying

[kurogane]

buds,

Yes, what are you saying??? For the benefit of those of us who speak English as a normal language, could we have that fascinating story again, this time in English?

At any rate, I agree with ya on the Death of the Myth of the Quiet Japanese Woman. I have never had my neighbours scream at me so much while I was dating a Canadian girl.

Now, everyone knows that Daily Yamazaki NEVER closes. Pleez to explain this obscure metaphor.

Thanking you. ;)

[tryfan]

hey dude....not knocking you, but heavy metal BGM, lowlight, MTV-style video clips ain't the best for attracting sweet romantic couples to church for the "most important day of their life".
but you miss the point - it's a chance to show you and the "missus" to millie-ann. how many other couples on GP are "live on the net"
give it a whirl dude...
peace

[Michael]

Aloha:

Millie-ann:

Don't really hate American women and their frat-boy, mommy-dependent, sports-obsessed, blindly-waving-the-flag male counterparts. Just find them so tedious and so predictable. I dated plenty of white American women before I moved here.

I do find non-Japanese, non-American women attractive. East Indians, Iranians, Hispanics, Scandinavians, whatever. It's not the race; it's the nationality, the particularly American lack of a sense of place, culture, history, future. I've dated plenty of American women. I just prefer non-Americans for the refreshing outlook I get from them. Tired of Madonna and Britney Spears (shouldn't it be Bretagne, Brittany, something like that?).

As for Korean or Chinese girls, I guess because they aren't represented in American media, I really can't identify with them. In Hawaii, Koreans are known for running bars and Chinese are known for making money. Japanese are seen as tourists. This is, by the way, a generalization, and doesn't include second- or later-generation "locals." Japanese women aren't represented the same way as other asian women. To us, all Thai and Filipino women are whores. Koreans and Chinese are peasants. We haven't seen anything other than Jackie Chan movies and syndicated episodes of MASH. I know that is wrong. I'm just saying, that is the perception in America. Finally, Japanese women seem more able to if not totally assimilate (God, I hope the best of them never do) into American culture, then at least put up with it.

[Ambient]

ok...this is irratating...how do I unsubscribe to this thread?

[kurogane]

Ambient wrote:

> ok...this is irratating...how do I unsubscribe to this thread?
>

Face It, You are Doomed. You will never escape. We have you in our Filthy Grasp.
HAHAHAHAHAHA

[Unky B]

Enough tools on this thread to open up a fu**in hardware shop.

Ah, Michael. Your posts practically scream "I am a winner".

Thanks, THE DUDE, for providing comic relief as usual. You a headhunter, by any chance? Used car salesman? Mortgage refi? Well, in any case, thanks for the laffs.

OFF THE CHART BAYBEE.

[millie-ann]

Unky B...
i don't speak your english....what the f**k is a tool!?
(obviously not something good...)

[millie-ann]

Dude...

Darling!......yes you left me behind....I am in gorgeous Kobe..can't tell you what I do or else it could be too easy to figure out who I am...(not for you maybe...but any of my friends reading this would definately realise who I was)...well.. adds to zee mysteree!.....heh!heh!

Everyone knows you on this site! and what is this wedding ad they are talking about?....Tacky? I don't believe it...you...nah..you are waaaay tooo much fun plus you live in Ginza!....so where can I.....er check you out?.....

Talking about cheezy ads...has anyone seen that ponce on the Daily Yomiuri Ad on CNN...man the guy pouts!!....



Post Edited (02-14-04 09:31)

[millie-ann]

Buds

Sweetie....aw you got the mother in me out...you can't prevent rejection by not trying....no!no! you will walk a lonely wilderness all your life...lots of nice Gaijin girls out there....they just SEEM snobby and uptight cos they are being defensive cos they think the boys don't like THEM....eye contact and an uncheezy "hi" and they will melt..right before your eyes...well maybe not all of them...but you gotta try!!

Man....you tell a scary stalker story....I never heard of J-boys doing that... but I mean what did you say to her at the airport...oh my god...that is so wierd...have you got rid of her yet?

[tryfan]

dude - see what a bit of publicity can do for you - give her the URL!

[millie-ann]

Hmmmm...

I got an email asking me why I am not more serious on the thread....
well..just to clarify...This is a good laugh as far as I am concerned...that's all...
a bit of fun...nothing more...

and..er i never reply to personal emails sent to me from a website post...

Why?
cos I really don't know who any of you lot are...could be axe-murderers or total pervs for all I know!!
Of course....I could be too...

.someone asked me if I was really a man! well I am not a
chickie..in the girlie sense...but I am certainly all woman!!

[Michael]

Okay, I watched Black Hawk Down and am now infused with a deep respect for my fellow countrymen. Winner? Me? Never. I just have an unrequited obsession with Japanese women. Sue me.

[AV]

East Europeans stick thin? who said that? Most of them are just normal. Actually compared to other places, there are quite a few unusually big-butted ones... makes me wonder if their pimps pick them for looking exotic or something... Where is that Natalia from Sapporo by the way? she was a straight hot cow-girl...
They are total bitches though, on that dude is right. I've never met women with more venom and less morals... even sour north americans can't compare.

jguylover,
is there such a thing as a gay jgirl? can they actually be wild and kinky? where do you hunt for such rarities? not giggly, pigeon-toed, flat-butted, flat-chested, ugly-legged ones? Any tips?.....pleaaase.... i'm dying from the lack of attractive women here....

[carlos]

Millie-ann, nice to see you on the board, your comments have an unabashed freshness to them, and most definitely from a woman! Keep expressing how you really feel.

btw, just saw 'Love Actually' tonight, and now I truly believe that love is all around. Happy Valentines everyone!

[Bugboy]

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[reepo]

1.I LOOOOVE skinny J girls.Why?,not sure now that I think about it.
2.Had enough of western women.
3.Airheads are great for a raunchy hard night(but nothing else mind you).

[the dude]

millie-ann,

You're in Kobe? If you're hot, and were there last year too, then we've probably already gotten sweet on eachother! Damn I miss Kansai! I had a beach side apartment with the best view of Akashi bridge from our balcony. The job here in Ginza was too good to pass up so I had to come and leave the good life behind. Ah well, so it goes...

tryfan,

the url of that advertisement I was in? Nah, if she's hot, then I'm sure we've gotten together @ one time or another and she's already seen the real thing!

Unky B,

Why do you ask? Are you looking for a job and a used car?

AV,

How ya doin be-be! Ain't seen you on this site for ages! Glad we still have the same opinion about the Eastern European gold diggers!
Whas' new with ya?



Post Edited (02-16-04 11:35)

[buds]

"Sweetie....aw you got the mother in me out..."
ooooooohhhhh!!!! *self-censored-self-censored-self-censored* :)
"you can't prevent rejection by not trying....no!no! you will walk a lonely wilderness all your life...lots of nice Gaijin girls out there...."
but the Japanese girls are out there too... and they don't make it as difficult.
they are really good at being cute too :)

"they just SEEM snobby and uptight cos they are being defensive cos they think the boys don't like THEM....eye contact and an uncheezy "hi" and they will melt..right before your eyes...well maybe not all of them...but you gotta try!!"
unh unh! they are flaky on emails too! jpn girls will at least email a john doe, g girls will just let a message float around in cyberspace (5 out of 5, that's enough -- and they macked on me first! truly flaky)
but just to prove a point, i'm going back in march. will try every g girl i see on the street (that weighs less than me), just so i can say that i did it. so there :D

"Man....you tell a scary stalker story....I never heard of J-boys doing that... but I mean what did you say to her at the airport...oh my god...that is so wierd...have you got rid of her yet?"

she wasn't stalking... just wanted to see me after so long, to refresh her memory :) maybe
i told her when/what day i was leaving. sorry to give the wrong impression :)
she done gained weight like an american now, but she still cute in the face, just not neat in the waist

a tool is like a ______ (i suppose :D)

[Bugboy]

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[Anonymous]

<1. Yes, with huge curvaceous caboose* It's biological; hourglass figure = SAUSAGE TIME.
2. Would be if the wife wouldn't split the nuts offa the back of my head.
3. Presumptious question hinging on your bait set in question 2 being snaffled... initially it was the allure of The Exotic Other.






*"ya got ta have sumthin ta sit on.. before I'll... carry ya home" (Brown, James)

[AV]

Hey dude, how’s the project? I’ve been travelling a lot lately, not so much time on-line.
On one of my trips I picked up this sweet Ukrainian girl - nice manners, not too stupid, not the foul talking/hard drinking bar type, and bi.
Her story: a Japanese husband in Tokyo, a rich Russian dude in Hokkaido, the “love of her life” waiting for her back in Ukraine, and undisclosed number of sponsors from previous life here as a hostess… but not enough qualified women, ha-ha… on that she was honest ;) I thought she probably wasn’t clean… well, at least I practiced my Russian...

[the dude]

AV,

Projects are still up in the air. Customers wanna shop around before forkin out millions of dollars. Cheap bastards!

You met a hot Ukrainian? And she was honest??? Wow, that's a first! They ALWAYS lie to me! You're probably right about the not being clean part. I make an attempt not to touch nasty hostesses. Not just to avoid the gold diggin aspect, but don't wanna catch anything ya can't get rid of!
Where'd ya go travelin? You have a ton of fun?

[the dude]

AV,

Forgot to say it, but thanx again for your advice last time!

[Mahou]

Some answers from me.

1. Is skinny, ala Japanese girls, the most preferred body shape? Why?
Not for me. There are certain body shapes that I like. I tend to prefer the slim side though.

2. Why are so many of you NOT interested in Gaijin girls out here?
I am not really interested in non-Asian girls in general, just personal preference (I am non-Japanese Asian). And so far, none of them ever showed any slight interest in me. (And this also applied in my home country)

3. What is it about Japanese/EE airheads that so so interest you?
Not interested in them, and they are not interested in me.

4. Japanese guys: what type of Gaijin women are you most attracted to?
For me, if any, one that is like Renee Zellwegner. (Hope I got her name right)

[millie-ann]

Hi Guys...thanks for your little pearls....

very clear to me that weight or body shape is the biggest issue for the boys here...I pity those large Japanese girls who seem to just about bursting out of their bodies..their frames were not made to be large..

Very clear too that EE gals have a real yukky rep..... unfortunate but er not surprising!..(not all of them obviously, for any pc twits out there!!)!

DUDE...so you were in Kobe? whats the likelihood that you and I had a smooch at Ryans one Steamy Saturday night!! heh heh!! I have friends living in Maiko and Asagiri by the beach too...hey! Maybe I know you..maybe you are who I think you could possibly be!!

Yeah I am hot...if you like the hourglass figure (not a SAUSAGE tho!..who said that anyway!)
Long dark hair....big dark eyes... though am small..as most hourglasses are....some improvements necessary...but then whose perfect? So what's your wife like..still haven't told me!!
can't believe you left Kobe for surburban Tokyo...bummer!!

MAHOU...hi there..so are is it just an attraction thing then or do the attitudes of g-gals influence your opinion?

Well gotta go now...just to let you know that I had a crappy V-day!!
My Japanese Valentines date showed up at my place at 23:58 cos his work wouldn't let him go!
S**T and I wonder why married women play away so much in this country!!

P.S I was too scared to post on the other thread for fear of offending anyone....but who is that loony tune Chairo gal/guy.....talk about a chip...

[buds]

"and I wonder why married women play away so much in this country!!"
they do?!! :o
long work hours is a part of being a male in Japan? so i've heard/experienced with friends. so it will probably not get better, sorry :(
for what it's worth, mine was rather uneventful also. i was washing clothes, and then went to sleep listening to some club jazz. last weekend i got hit on entirely too much :( so no clubbing out

"P.S I was too scared to post on the other thread for fear of offending anyone....but who is that loony tune Chairo gal/guy.....talk about a chip..."
he probably has had some past experiences that he is probably trying to compensate for.
i do not think it will happen on a relatively anonymous bbs though...

[Bugboy]

Chairo???NAaah, he is just a pathetic little troll, nothing much.................just tell him to get back to his cage.

[the dude]

Heya millie-ann,

"The likelihood that you and I had a smooch at Ryans one Steamy Saturday night?"
Kinda unlikely. I don't dig Ryans too much. At Sally's or that sunflower joint on top of the hill might be a possiblity. You ever stay the night with the hottest looking girl in the world (can't describe what actress she looks like cause everyone who knows us would know our identity) and me, (already described what I look like, plus I'm a loud mouth so you'd definately remember me) at the sweetest beach apt with a balcony above the sand and an awesome night view?
If not, ya can still give it a shot if ya come up to Ginza! Jokes aside, you're right about this place though. Kantou sucks compared with the joint we had in Kansai. God damn ugly freakin buildings everywhere and crowded as all hell! I'm on a 3yr contract (with an option to extend it another 2 yrs) so I might get lucky and get transfered back to a beach area! Completely different subject, but I'd rather get transfered to S.E. Asia or S. America than somewhere else in Japan.
You can't tell me what you're doin here? I can't remember being with anyone with a completely out of the ordinary job that lives in Kobe. Unless you're that lawyer from P & G. Damn that chick was into herself! You don't sound like her. Is it you and you had a change of heart and decided to talk nice?

[the dude]

millie-ann,

by any chance, were you at the end of summer suma beach party last Aug.?

[Mahou]

Millie-ann

Guess character plays a lot into it (attraction wise). I do like a lady who knows what she wants in life. She does not have to be very very smart, but she has to be able to "use her brain", or be street smart.

Back home I do get to see plenty of non-Asian males dating Asian (Chinese/Malay,etc) females, yet I hardly see it going the other way round.
Maybe I am sensitive or something, but I do get the impression that in general, Asian males are not very attractive to non-Asian females living in a predominantly Asian country.
Although it seems that Japanese males are doing slightly better than the rest of the Asian guys.

As for chairo...
Let`s just say that he`s a person who can`t accept any opinion that does not go along with his own. He is very nice to people who agress with him, but woe to any that question his point of view.



Post Edited (02-18-04 14:55)

[in flames]

hi how are you?
well I am a newbie here !!
I suppose many Japanese men enough are keen on gaijin women here,I mean, in Kansai!!
but it depends on where you go, as ye know, there are many Japanese women and western men in a lot of bar and pubs!! However I know some Japanese men have gaijin women as their girlfriends or even fiances as well.
But it is hard for both of us to tell and know if we are keen on to get to know about Japanese men/western women isn't it?
To be honest, I haven't fallen for japanese women for many years but Whenever I ask a woman out to have drink or go to the cinema together, she is a woman from different countries!! well I stayed in the UK so I can speak moderate English well maybe not:)
I hope to hear from ye soon
cheerio

[curry]

My 2 cents on the questions in the first post.

1) Nah, not for me. The first time I felt a pair of boobs that were behind push-up/wonderbras/whatever, it was obnoxious. Yeah, I mean that, really. It was horrible. I guess I prefer the curvy ones....a little plump, yeah, ok. But hope they are not acreful...

2) Gaijin girls...do not see many of them. Fewer G-women that I have seen and admired...well, I go weak at the knees. Prefer them anyday to J-girls.
As Mahou, I am a non-J Asian. I am from India.
I ain't sensitive or anything, but I just don't approach girls just like that, in a bar or at other places. If I happen to meet them, somehow, it is ok...else, God's in Heaven, All's right with the world. Including me.

3) Airheads, from any race or country, are not my type.

Curry

[millie-ann]

Hey Guys..thanks for the correspondence...

BUDS: Hiya! You didn't know that married women play away.? ...man I know a few who do....and have heard of a few more...I once got placed in the middle of a fight between some folks I know...He hadn't come home all night....and was defending having an apartment in Sannomiya....which is just 20 minutes drive from where his family lives!! Hmmm.....She knows that he is at hostess clubs at the weekend...she never sees him in the week....then a fit young stud comes along....ahh c'est la vie....another newly-wed told me she was repulsed by her husband....that she had lost the love of her life to a younger woman but they were planning to start an affair....figure that?!!

I have to say that it is all amusing to observe....but I think I would morph into evil _____ bunny-boiling mental woman..if that ever happenned to me!!!....Faithfulness is a beautiful thing...once you've fallen in love!! can men be really faithful.?....or is it just a socialised invention of moral puritans....

DUDE:..darling...Ryans is not one of my favourite haunts either but recently I have to say I enjoy it more and more these days...on the other hand..my mates and I used to spend ALL our time in Sally's..but in the last year it' gone really crappy!! Sunflower has some rather painful..very sad memories for me...but I know some locals there....I think that it is HIGHLY possible that we have mutual friends or acquaintances....but lets not reveal eh? it is nice like this!!
I have a couple of good P&G friends (blokes) have no idea what it is about the women working there...but they really are obnoxious bitches....I mean real cucmber-up-your arse obnoxious.....yeuchh!!

It's not that I do anything particularly special...it's just that there is a small group of people in the same er...job...so it's easy to figure out who I am for those who read this and know me...!! You understand right? or else you would tell us of your wife's STRIKING resemblance to...Cameron Diaz!!! or is it..JLO..no? how about...JULIA....?

It's funny you mention SUMA...I was SO Close to going....I know a couple of the DJ's organisers of the event....I promised to go...but got tied up with other stuff...heard it was good fun though!!!

MAHOU...hey!..I think you are from Malaysia right?...beautiful country...do the ethnicities mix alot and date eachother...I noticed it was very ethnic-specific interms of couples?
I have seen more Chinese men with G-gals than J-boys. Not sure why that is...
And well...yes...it does seem that G-gals are not often seen dating Asian boys...but you know..that is why I was asking these questions...many G-gals feel that it is Asian men that just do NOT fancy them....as in find them Unattractive and Unappealing. I know girls who desperately fancy J-boys....but just do not know how to get them...
I am not a big slut or anything....but my few successes with J-boys have been cos for some reason or the other I just grabbed them and snogged them!!!

IN FLAMES: Halloooo! are you Japanese? Why do you prefer G-gals? please tell....

CURRY: Hi there....you bring up the priceless issue of pushed up over your head boobs! HA! Ha! Yes! There is nothing so horrific as a padded bra! I just cannot imagine the disappointment on disrobement...heh!heh! Anyway Indian ladies are rather bountiful as well as gorgeous..aren't they? AISHWARYA RAI....now SHE is beautiful...stunning....mindblowingly gorgeous...I am not even nearly a lesbian....but she....well she could change me!...

[LAKERFUN]

HI MILLIE ANN.

HAVE A NICE GUY LIKE ME FOR YOU

[the dude]

Millie-ann,

i totally understand! i was dumb enough to post a web site for an ad we were in & we got about 5 f'kin phone calls asking us about it.

Anyway, you're not that stuck-up lawyer so glad we're writin eachother!

You shoulda gone to the Suma beach party! Damn that was soooo much freakin fun! There was another one the next day about 10 miles west of there too!

[buds]

5 out of 5 of the aus women i met in japan were hotties in some form or fashion.
they are so friendly though -- can't figure out what's up :(

[in flames]

How are you going,millie-ann?

well first of all, Basically I am not keen on very skinny women regardless of nationalities but many Japanese women seem unhealthly skinny well plenty of them enough.
secondly I have never asked even a Japanese woman out in my whole life so I suppose that's my preferrence. I reckon there are many Japanese men who want to date gaijin women here but some are just shy to ask them out or they don't know how to approach them or talk to them and they think it is impossible to do that as they can't speak English or any other languages. well I stayed in the UK for a year to learn English and most friends here are non-Japanese so I get used to talking to them but some men here don't.
However it is hard to sense if gaijin women are keen on us even if we want to talk to them.
I suppose many Japanese men seem to wonder if gaijin women are keen on them !!
well I live near Osaka so whenever I go to Umeda or Namba, I see some gaijin women but
I smile at them if we look at each other accidentally even if we are stranger as I did in the UK well many British did to me while I was there but I still do here.
well I have fallen for women from UK and Australia before. they all were good looking as well as good nature. I still keep in touch with one of them who I met in Osaka even if she is in her country anyway!!
Basically I tend to fall for women who have brown or brunette hair but I am not particular about colour of eyes but dark hair and blue eyes are cool well some red haired women are attractive as well. when it comes to body, well average or slim but not skinny but also bit cuddle would be nice as well. well I am dark skinned so I prefer pale skinned women!!
I have always been keen on different cultures since I started study English and listening to English music.
ciao
in flames

[Dr.Drew]

Why the hatred...can't we all just get along?