More to love

[ali_gore]

Im just curious . How many of you would date someone who has a little more to love and how much is to much. Guys and Girls respond.

[blender]

Just to clarify, are you talking about fat?

[Morning Star]

I have to draw the line a woman's stomach is larger than her tits.

I don't know how girls can go out with fat guys. Guys are ugly enough as it is, but to be fat...and hairy, on top of that. きもいぃ！　　

I know guys who shave their chest because it makes them look fat. (me)

[Gaijin de Moscu]

If we are talking about fat...

Big dame for me. Too skinny is also dame.

[madmaxxam]

All a matter of degree, so I would need pictures, which I don't have. Obviously there is a line to be drawn. Same goes with too skinny.

[ali_gore]

I was talking about fat but sincity brings up a good fact about people with other additives.

Morning Star: I guess girls don't care to much about body images. You always see skinny women with a man who looks like he's carrying triplets but you hardly see it the other way around.

Ive date both men and women who were overweight. I dated a guy that had a beer belly and oddly i thought it was cute. As far as girls go. Ive see some girl who look damn good and when they tell you how much they weight your shock because they don't look like they do.

[Emulator]

Weight does not matter so much as having a good breasts to waist to hips ratio. Really overweight women are usually way off, and so are very very skinny women. It's the shape that is important. Weight is a silly thing to measure by because everyone is not the same height and a girl can be bigger but still have a good shape.

[madmaxxam]

Yup, that's why those Latino girls can be so hot. They have a bit more everywhere, but they have all the curves and the right ratio. One problem is, from what I've seen they don't always age well.

[Emulator]

How right you are madmaxxam. Italian women can be like that as well. How many times have you seen a drop dead gorgeous Italian girl out with her mother/grandmother and not seen a hint of resemblance? Mind you that could have also had something to do with their mothers/grandmothers growing up in different times with different diets and standards of health/beauty. Still, always consider how a partner is gonna look in twenty years before commiting too deeply.

[Kumachan]

A woman has to have curves in all the right places otherwise she just looks weird. A little bit of fat doesn't bother me provided she's still well proportioned and she still has those curves.

However a fat girl is simply not attractive to me, also very skinny girls are also pretty reupulsive in my eyes.

[Kent Brockman]

Still, always consider how a partner is gonna look in twenty years before commiting too deeply.
Yuck. Emulator the Stockbroker and his time-share concubines. Creep.

[ali_gore]

I love that hour glass look.

[Song2]

But to answer the question: Generally, a bit extra is no issue. Not being able to see the button on their jeans because it's hidden under flab... definately not good.

Not to mention the permanent imprints that the elastic in their tight underwear leaves on their body. I say permanent as I've never hung around long enough to see if the marks do eventually disappear.
[s______]

[swordfishtrombone]

"Big bottom, big bottom
Talk about bum cakes, my girl's got 'em
Big bottoms drive me out of my mind
How could I leave this behind?"

[Ageless]

nothing wrong with a bit of meat on the old body, too skinny can be just the same. Like what a comedian said...."some people are so skinny that when they're ill, they get faxed to the hospital."

personally, one can always trim off those unwanted bits so no worries for me.

[Song2]

personally, one can always trim off those unwanted bits so no worries for me.

Yes, it's fabulous what plastic surgery can do nowadays.

[madmaxxam]

Yes, it's fabulous what plastic surgery can do nowadays.

Especially when everyone in this world is too lazy to eat right and/or excersize. It's amazing what that can and has done reguardless of time and surgical techniques.

[Ageless]

Especially when everyone in this world is too lazy to eat right and/or excersize. It's amazing what that can and has done reguardless of time and surgical techniques.

-Speaking of exercise, it's amazing how much of everything Japan has...but I've found where I live that there are no gyms!!
There are loads of pachinko parlours, karaoke, shops etc but no decent place to sweat out after a day's work. Have you noticed this as well?
Maybe other places are different, and the ones that I've been to around Japan are not that good.

[ali_gore]

Plastic surgery makes me think about my favorite tv show Nip/Tuck. Julian McMahon can tuck and touch me any day.



Whoah! What exactly are you saying? You date men AND women??

Yes thats exactly what I mean but at this moment I'm a little more interested in my female counterparts

[madmaxxam]

-Speaking of exercise, it's amazing how much of everything Japan has...but I've found where I live that there are no gyms!!
There are loads of pachinko parlours, karaoke, shops etc but no decent place to sweat out after a day's work. Have you noticed this as well?
Maybe other places are different, and the ones that I've been to around Japan are not that good.

Yes, I have noticed this. It's odd, it seems the ratio of gyms in America compared to Japan is about 10:1, and yet obesity would be 1:10. (Pulling these nubmers out of my A$$, so don't call me on them). However, far more people in Japan walk and ride their bike often, which helps a great deal to burn calories. Many suburban / rural Americans will drive if they have to go more than 100 meters. One of the reasons I believe the obesity rate is very low in NYC is because so many people there use a combination of walking and subway as opposed to driving.

For me the issue of dating someone fat is almost less about the physical look than about the fact that I feel they are usually physically lazy people. I have seen exceptions to this, although not many. I want someone that will be able to go on hikes with me, climb mountains, then go skiing/snowboarding, maybe play some sports, etc. My lifestyle lets me eat as much as I want, and whatever I want, and I never gain weight (and of course my gf is jealous).

[Song2]

I want someone that will be able to go on hikes with me, climb mountains, then go skiing/snowboarding, maybe play some sports, etc.

WHAT...all in one day...chuffing hell are you really UltraMan in disguise?

[Gaijin de Moscu]

Ectually my ex was a bit on the soft (chubby) side. Not much, but still.

Apart from not being exciting visually (I did not mind, but it was not exciting), she also missed a lot of fun that I was having with my friends. For example, she did not go rafting with us in Shikoku, did not climb Fujisan, was tired early so missed a lot of late night parties... Only deepened our divide and helped divorce.

[blooper]

I have to draw the line a woman's stomach is larger than her tits.

I don't know how girls can go out with fat guys. Guys are ugly enough as it is, but to be fat...and hairy, on top of that. きもいぃ！　　

I know guys who shave their chest because it makes them look fat. (me)
Try laser hair removal. permanent removal of hair.

[blooper]

Yup, that's why those Latino girls can be so hot. They have a bit more everywhere, but they have all the curves and the right ratio. One problem is, from what I've seen they don't always age well.
Gravity dude that is the problem.
We should all move to the Moon.

[Bluedog]

I heard about some research a while back that showed that the spurt volume was higher when fired into larger women. The explanation being that even if you think you like the skinny ones, the old parts of your brain know that stick-thin women aren't the best shape for giving birth and sends the message to not fire as much.

But there's a limit. I think they mean chubby women more than fat women since obesity hinders conception:
http://keyetv.com/health/health_story_295161959.html
Men who are too fat also produce poor semen:
http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2004/10/21/health/main650708.shtml

I actually can't find anything on the original, but just try googling for "fat women" and "lots of jism" and see how many sites you get. I tried a more refined search: "Fatties" and "semen" but kept getting distracted by the sites that popped up. This is obviously research that should be continued...

[kurogane]

Kurogane agrees. He has a very very close friend that has noticed exactly the same sort of tendency spoken of by our amorous Lysanderous. Definitive determinative conclusionation is difficult becasue of the variety of other factors (time since last sexual encounter; weight of the load I, err, he has on that time; her oral preparation skills; mode of injection(i.e. oral, condomal, etc.), etc.)

Another thing Our Friend has noticed is the remarkable tendency for the Larger Lovelies to be far more enthusiastic about the preparatory flute concerto, incl. their often remarkable abilities to engulf the entire instrument, and their willingness and endeavour in consuming the often vast amount of liquid reward awaiting them at the end of the performance.
Anyways, that's what my very very good friend says.

Any more data, fellow researchers??

[madmaxxam]

WHAT...all in one day...chuffing hell are you really UltraMan in disguise?

Well... if I could fit all of that into one day I would, but climbing a mountain and then skiing in the same day would probably be difficult mostly because of 'seasonal constraints'. As it is, I'll settle for all of those things on different days. Excuse my grammar.

[Gaijin de Moscu]

All this analysis of fat ladies brought a memory into my life of my one and only time of having sex with what can be called a chubby woman. She was Cambodian. Never before, and never since, I finished with such intensity (and, I am ashamed to admit, speed).

I was literally shocked with myself.

Bluedog might be right, after all. All that ancient brain stuff. Must be.

[madmaxxam]

All this analysis of fat ladies brought a memory into my life of my one and only time of having sex with what can be called a chubby woman. She was Cambodian. Never before, and never since, I finished with such intensity (and, I am ashamed to admit, speed).

I was literally shocked with myself.

Bluedog might be right, after all. All that ancient brain stuff. Must be.

You know, my first chubby was sort of the same. Then again, maybe the speed half of that one was that I hadn't had any in a while at that time. More bones to Bluedog's theory.

[Song2]

All this analysis of fat ladies brought a memory into my life of my one and only time of having sex with what can be called a chubby woman. She was Cambodian.

Chubby and Cambodian...did she also have blue eyes? :)

I recall a Chubby encounter once upon a time...she had inverted nipples too...odd looking for sure!

[godzillagaijin]

THis is hands down the BEST thread I have read on this site...

Just one question...youre in Cambodia...and you pick a Fat chick? I mean...were you picking up in the Killing Fields or what? "hmmm...do I choose the one with no legs...the one with the bamboo plate in her head...or the fat one..." Would have cost you only a dollar more to head down to Sharky Bar and get yourself some quality, 12 year old yum-yum (after a quick stop at Happy Herbs for an Extra Happy Pizza of course).

My take on the whole thing? Being a human being of enormous girth and charm, I can hands down say I HATE(D) hooking up with fat chicks...Ill admit it...Im a fatist...and Im the worst kind of fatist...Im a fat fatist.

But who hasnt gone hoggin once or twelve times in their life? Fat chicks will do ANYTHING for you/ to you. I banged a fat bag of crap on a beach in Bermuda once...her ___ was in the sand, and it was getting everywhere...I log rolled her over for doggy and a beach fell out of her crack...it was at that moment I asked her, "Its alright if I put it in your butt, right?" Without hesitation she says, " Yeah, just make it quick."

SO yes...they will do anything, and generally do it well (as long as it isnt too strenuous)...and if you promise her a bologna sandwhich afterward shell let you have a friend join in too.

But the whole thing about loads and hard ons and shite...I cant really go along with any of those figures on a personal basis...my loads are plenitfull and strong...powerful and tangy...sticky yet sweet...

Not to mention my whole life I have been blessed with the ability to cultivate and seduce hot woman that will sleep with me...Not only is it in inspite of being a fatty, but most probably as a result of being one...cause when you hold the fat card, your pimp hand can be very strong.

[Gaijin de Moscu]

I hate doing it on a beach. Especially in Japan. Sand everywhere, dog-walking ojisans appear out of no where... weirdoes... nah, thanks.

That chick in Cambodia... was a friend of another chick who my own friend wanted, so I did that out of male camaraderie (so that they both come to our villa). We actually did that in the same room... ah, those were the days. Young, stupid, carefree.

I got a really hot Vietnamese g/f after that mind-opening experience... was my very first real love. I still mourn loosing her sometimes. She wanted to stop my helicopter when I was taking off... she almost died. Full respect to that lady. She formed my taste in slim, long-black-haired, sharp-witted, self-sacrificing good women.

[godzillagaijin]

I hate doing it on a beach. Especially in Japan. Sand everywhere, dog-walking ojisans appear out of no where... weirdoes... nah, thanks.

That chick in Cambodia... was a friend of another chick who my own friend wanted, so I did that out of male camaraderie (so that they both come to our villa). We actually did that in the same room... ah, those were the days. Young, stupid, carefree.

I got a really hot Vietnamese g/f after that mind-opening experience... was my very first real love. I still mourn loosing her sometimes. She wanted to stop my helicopter when I was taking off... she almost died. Full respect to that lady. She formed my taste in slim, long-black-haired, sharp-witted, self-sacrificing good women.

Now you being russian, was this helicopter like the air fortress ones in Rambo and Red Dawn? Or was it like a Huey? Cause the Red Dawn Russian helicopter was bad ___.

[Gaijin de Moscu]

It was a bery bad ___ helicopter. Overloaded, too.

EDIT: Can not believe I even type with a Japanese accept. It's 'Very' of course, not 'Bery'.

BTW, I confuse B and V, and R and L quite a lot when I type / talk now... do you do it too? Maybe just me.

[kuro_kitty]

THis is hands down the BEST thread I have read on this site...

Just one question...youre in Cambodia...and you pick a Fat chick? I mean...were you picking up in the Killing Fields or what? "hmmm...do I choose the one with no legs...the one with the bamboo plate in her head...or the fat one..." Would have cost you only a dollar more to head down to Sharky Bar and get yourself some quality, 12 year old yum-yum (after a quick stop at Happy Herbs for an Extra Happy Pizza of course).

My take on the whole thing? Being a human being of enormous girth and charm, I can hands down say I HATE(D) hooking up with fat chicks...Ill admit it...Im a fatist...and Im the worst kind of fatist...Im a fat fatist.

But who hasnt gone hoggin once or twelve times in their life? Fat chicks will do ANYTHING for you/ to you. I banged a fat bag of crap on a beach in Bermuda once...her ___ was in the sand, and it was getting everywhere...I log rolled her over for doggy and a beach fell out of her crack...it was at that moment I asked her, "Its alright if I put it in your butt, right?" Without hesitation she says, " Yeah, just make it quick."

SO yes...they will do anything, and generally do it well (as long as it isnt too strenuous)...and if you promise her a bologna sandwhich afterward shell let you have a friend join in too.

But the whole thing about loads and hard ons and shite...I cant really go along with any of those figures on a personal basis...my loads are plenitfull and strong...powerful and tangy...sticky yet sweet...

Not to mention my whole life I have been blessed with the ability to cultivate and seduce hot woman that will sleep with me...Not only is it in inspite of being a fatty, but most probably as a result of being one...cause when you hold the fat card, your pimp hand can be very strong.

from the looks of your website you are fat too, so why are you a fatist? You shouldn't throw stones when you live in a glass house matey

[madmaxxam]

from the looks of your website you are fat too, so why are you a fatist? You shouldn't throw stones when you live in a glass house matey

I know quite a few guys carrying around extra pounds that are fatist. I always find it odd when an overweight guy comments about a girl thinner than him being too fat for him. There's lots of 'em out there though.

[Bluedog]

"from the looks of your website you are fat too"

GG aint my favourite guy, but it's not like he tried to hide it. Check out his post, it's full of references to his convoluted abs:

Being a human being of enormous girth...Im the worst kind of fatist...Im a fat fatist....inspite of being a fatty...

By the way GG, funniest post you've done so far. Go bag some more big women and release more of that agro you've got stashed there.

[godzillagaijin]

from the looks of your website you are fat too, so why are you a fatist? You shouldn't throw stones when you live in a glass house matey

You are maybe the most dense, thick headed, moronic individual I have ever had the pleasure of interacting with (no offense Kurogane). I mean, did you read any of the post or just skim it with your glazed over, catatonic peepers?

And dont call me matey...what are you? A fukin pirate?

And to answer your question quite bluntly, its because I can be...If Im white should I only like white chicks? If I am a quadraplegic, should I only like other quads? If Im retarded, should I only like other 'tardates?

This great, male dominated society has given me the opportunity to not only enjoy all the food, spirits and television I want, but without any expense in the Hot Chick department. I can play Grand Theft Auto until my eyes bleed, roll of the couch with hideous bed sores on my bottom, and still go out and pick up a beautiful woman...why would I settle for anything else if that is what is available to me in droves?

And can we be totally honest about fat chicks? For whatever reasons (nurture, peer, societal, physical, neurological) fat chicks are the most insecure, feeble minded, dependant human beings on the earth....and only a few like minded men would find that to be at all attractive...Sure, I have ridden my fair share of the obesidachi, but for kicks only. I would never even CONSIDER marrying one of them for a moment. Or even having a long term relationship with one of them...longer than 2 hours anyway....

Fat chicks are like mopeds...they are fun to ride, but you dont want your friends to see you on one.

[kuro_kitty]

I don't give a **** about you Matey! You're a fat c@nt, sucked in! You probably have clogged arteries and are ridden with disease.

[kuro_kitty]

I don't give a sh@t about fat chicks either. You're both as lazy and pitiful as each other. So don't get your fists up sweetheart! I'm not on your side or theirs. Just reminding you that you are fat too.

[godzillagaijin]

I don't give a **** about you Matey! You're a fat c@nt, sucked in! You probably have clogged arteries and are ridden with disease.

You cared enough to write back to me twice Kitty...

Soooo...are you saying you wanna go steady? You chubby chasin fool...I got enough here for you and your bull dyke girlfriend...and enough bologna sandwhiches to keep your mouth shut for hours while I work my magic on your ___ with my sandpaper condom.

[akahebi]

(I'm) just reminding you that you are fat too.

Buwahahahahahah! Kuro, you crack me up!

Maybe we should buy them a wider mirror? Have you seen those real thin ones for sale? They're like 20 cm wide. You know he's got one on his wall and he does a little side-to-side dance in front of it before he goes out telling himself that he's lost weight.

[ali_gore]

I don't give a sh@t about fat chicks either. You're both as lazy and pitiful as each other. So don't get your fists up sweetheart! I'm not on your side or theirs. Just reminding you that you are fat too.

lol lol I love your comments kitty. ahh your great. lol lol

[kuro_kitty]

Buwahahahahahah! Kuro, you crack me up!

Maybe we should buy them a wider mirror? Have you seen those real thin ones for sale? They're like 20 cm wide. You know he's got one on his wall and he does a little side-to-side dance in front of it before he goes out telling himself that he's lost weight.


Yes, I can just imagine...the "fat dance" you know the one where he clicks his fingers mid air before shimmying his beautiful bare breasts in front of the mirror.

[akahebi]

Not sure whether to laugh or throw up!

Obese people disgust me. Oh, and the excuses are great. "I've got thick skin." "I've got a wide bone structure." "It's my metabolism." "My mother abused me." "It's all this fish and rice."

[madmaxxam]

My girlfriend wants me to fatten up, but no matter how much she feeds me I stay under 70 kg at 180 cm. Probably has to do partly with the fact that I have a 35 minute, hilly bike ride to and from work every day.

[kurogane]

Just wait a few years, there Maxxie, and your eating habits will catch up with your metabolism, and you will start to look less like a greyhound, and more like that pudgy little mikan coloured Corgi on your avatar
Choooo

[kuro_kitty]

My girlfriend wants me to fatten up, but no matter how much she feeds me I stay under 70 kg at 180 cm.

Maybe you should try some light weight lifting. 70kg is tiny for a man of your height!

[Song2]

So don't get your fists up sweetheart!

What a great title for an adult flick....starring kuro_kitty and godzillagaijin, of course...looking forward to the debate as to who gets star billing already!
;)

[Bluedog]

"don't get your fists up sweetheart!"

Or "Don't get two fists up my sweetheart"

This could be like Chinese whispers. Ooops. There's that racism thing again.

[madmaxxam]

Maybe you should try some light weight lifting. 70kg is tiny for a man of your height!

Not really, and I can bench well more than my weight, so I'm not concerned about being weak. I can also beat many people that weigh more than me at my height in arm wrestling, it always surprises them. Most of the sports I participate in are lower body sports too, so I have very strong legs. Almost no fat though, which I guess can sometimes cause pain in bed (no hip padding).

And I do weight lifting. Although I haven't since coming to Japan. My favorite is chin-ups with weights tied to me. I can do 12 with 15 pounds extra weight. Or I could before I came to Japan.

[Bluedog]

"Almost no fat though, which I guess can sometimes cause pain in bed (no hip padding)"

I guess that's where the term boning came from.

I can, by the way, do 12 chinups with an extra 84 pounds strapped to comrade Wang. Actually I just came back from the gym. It's the only way I've found to stay in shape. Other forms of energy outlet are just too much hassle over here.

[Gaijin de Moscu]

As to me, I went downhill since I left the army. I have alredy experienced the shame of not being able to keep up with my g/f during the morning runs.

Need to do something. I guess.

Stil no fat though.

[akahebi]

At least running behind your GF provides a good view...

[Gaijin de Moscu]

At least running behind your GF provides a good view...

Indeed, if you can keep up behind. She was ahead of me about 500 meters by the time we finished the run. Utter embarassment. I pretended that I did not even want to compete, and that enjoyable slow run was my style... yeah right.

But then we went hiking... and she was again fitter on the climbs. She had to wait for me. How much more embarassing does it get.

[madmaxxam]

But then we went hiking... and she was again fitter on the climbs. She had to wait for me. How much more embarassing does it get.

Ah, I wish Maki was more of the outdoorsy type. I really do wish to go hiking more in the mountains in Japan... oh well, I guess I'll just have to find another hiking partner... or explore by myself.