Im in a pretty weird situation here. Alright, Im in Japan now, high school foreign exchange student, 18, studying for the proficiency test coming up in December. By way of the local international center I found somebody willing to teach me Japanese for free, this 35 year old lady. I have been going to lessons twice a week now for a couple of months, and its a huge help for my Japanese. She is the only person I have found thats willing to teach me Japanese and not want to learn English in return. Things were going really good until about 2 weeks ago, I got the feeling she was starting to put moves on me. Lord knows I haven't been encouraging her, she is 35 and really unattractive. Now she wants to take me out to eat after lessons, and asks me not to wear my school uniform. This sucks. I really need the lessons, but damnit, Im not gonna go out with this lady. This week the lessons were really uncomfortable, and she still asks me to go to dinner with her, I make up excuses. Anybody been in the same situation? Any advice?