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    My mother-in-law has been teasing me in a sexual manner for a couple of years. She would make innuendos about me, comment about how handsome I was and other small things like that. I am pretty sure its normal in Japan but Poking, touching, feeling, etc..??.. Finally one day at a family party we were kind of tipsy and I half jokingly suggested she would make a good wife because of her cooking and that we have a kind of husband/wife tension. She got serious and said nobody would have to know. This happened around Christmas about 3 years ago

    Well, I finally acted on it about 3 months ago and have been having regular sex with her ever since. This has brought on the worst feelings of guilt I have ever felt. To make matters worse, the sex is ____ing good which makes me feel even guiltier

    My In-law keeps telling me that nobody has to know and that we can continue but I want to break it off and come clean. I just don't know how to broach the subject. Multiple relationships could be ruined, taking the kids from their grandmother, my wife from her mother and me from everyone. I am an English teacher at the moment and can’t afford to move away. We are doing the nisetaijyutaku and I just need these things tosettle down. .
    I wish it would just stop and things go on like normal My In-law seems to have no guilt, she told me she "loves me" and is okay just being lovers Her husband is past the sex thing and is a severe alcoholic. This is just too much to handle.

    Anyone been in a similar situation? What should I do?
    Last edited by StaleEarlOfGinza; 2011-06-02 at 09:25 AM.

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    Break it off and keep it to yourself. Telling anyone is only to assuage your own guilt, which is weak. You are going to hurt a bunch of other people just so you can feel better. Weak. Keep your mouth shut, and don't cheat anymore.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LD2 View Post
    You are in the car already braddah. The only way out of it is to get ejected through a window, which is going to happen at some point. You only have partial control over when that happens. While I would love to be a roadside judge and give you a score on your dismount, if I were you I would continue hanging on to some handles and enjoy the ride for as long as possible.
    9.5 for your post.

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    Cool story bro. I thought you were living with your uncle and aunt in Ginza.
    Before you say anything, prepare to shut the f_u_c_k up.

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    MILILF??




    Sounds like fun. Need someone to take over the reins?

    Srsly tho, where and when do you do it?
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    Quote Originally Posted by LD2 View Post
    <bows to the Judge.

    I'd ask for an extra .5 if I could post a mom/daughter combo story, but any story I wrote about that would be a fabrication. Online porn doping if you will
    There's a daddy-daughter series and a mommy-son series if that's your thing on xhamster.com - just search for "game show"

    OP: can we have wife and MIL photos?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bye-Bye kin View Post
    Cool story bro. I thought you were living with your uncle and aunt in Ginza.
    Indeed.

    Quote Originally Posted by StaleEarlOfGinza View Post
    My mam said that I would have to move to Tokyo, Ginza with my aunt and uncle. I begged her not to send me there, but she gave me a ticket and sent me on my way. My mother gave me up to them, and that really let me down. I wish she would stop running around and hurting me. I cry at night when she tells my goodbye on the phone. Sometimes, I think she’s lying, and it really hurts me.
    I hate Tokyo
    I think the OP is lying, and it really hurts me.

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    [QUOTE=なるほど;1139075]Indeed.



    I think the OP is lying, and it really hurts me/QUOTE]

    Sorry about that, it was a bit of a gag-Its akind of funny situation and its cool to begin with but things ghave gone too far and i need to get out of it-if she turns mental?

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    Quote Originally Posted by hml View Post
    MILILF??




    Sounds like fun. Need someone to take over the reins?

    Srsly tho, where and when do you do it?
    Sounds good to begin with, My wife works and in-law doesnt i finish early when the schools do. this means i need to change jobs and get a different schedule thatll help

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    Quote Originally Posted by StaleEarlOfGinza View Post
    Sounds good to begin with, My wife works and in-law doesnt i finish early when the schools do. this means i need to change jobs and get a different schedule thatll help
    Just tell the family that your hours will change next month, get in a final squeeze and then move on.
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    Quote Originally Posted by hml View Post
    Just tell the family that your hours will change next month, get in a final squeeze and then move on.
    Its not going to be easy I leave to go hom in 20 mins and the wife doesnt get back till 7, kids away till 7 as well.
    I might go to the Royal host and wait for a bit

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    Quote Originally Posted by StaleEarlOfGinza View Post
    My mother-in-law has been teasing me in a sexual manner for a couple of years. She would make innuendos about me, comment about how handsome I was and other small things like that. I am pretty sure its normal in Japan but Poking, touching, feeling, etc..??.. Finally one day at a family party we were kind of tipsy and I half jokingly suggested she would make a good wife because of her cooking and that we have a kind of husband/wife tension. She got serious and said nobody would have to know. This happened around Christmas about 3 years ago

    Well, I finally acted on it about 3 months ago and have been having regular sex with her ever since. This has brought on the worst feelings of guilt I have ever felt. To make matters worse, the sex is ____ing good which makes me feel even guiltier

    My In-law keeps telling me that nobody has to know and that we can continue but I want to break it off and come clean. I just don't know how to broach the subject. Multiple relationships could be ruined, taking the kids from their grandmother, my wife from her mother and me from everyone. I am an English teacher at the moment and can’t afford to move away. We are doing the nisetaijyutaku and I just need these things tosettle down. .
    I wish it would just stop and things go on like normal My In-law seems to have no guilt, she told me she "loves me" and is okay just being lovers Her husband is past the sex thing and is a severe alcoholic. This is just too much to handle.

    Anyone been in a similar situation? What should I do?
    One of the better posts I've read here. It's gonna go bad and too late to change that. Walk and she talks. Stay and she...can't think of a word that rhymes...so stay and pay (huh)...keep us up to date regardless.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LD2 View Post
    Sorry, a father/daughter or mother/son combo is not my thing.
    Sounds like a set meal with Onion rings.

    ew.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StaleEarlOfGinza View Post
    ..... come clean.
    I would keep "coming clean" as often as I could if I were you....
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    The only one who is going to get hurt here is the OP. The wife will get over it
    but what is the OP going to do when he loses everything?

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    Quote Originally Posted by SteadyRollingMan View Post
    what is the OP going to do when he loses everything?
    Get drunk with his alcoholic father-in-law?
    Before you say anything, prepare to shut the f_u_c_k up.

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    The trouble is dude, that while you feel guilty now, if you break it off with the mother I guarantee that within a few weeks you'll be horny for her again.

    Make it clear to the mother that your priority is your wife and kids, and their wellbeing must come first(!). Any stoking she gets from you is just a bit of throwaway fun. I'm guessing that if her old man is an alcoholic he won't be getting it up any time soon, and you my friend are just convenient post against which she can scratch herself.

    I say observe ground rules and pork away; in time it will become routine and your guilt will ebb. Who knows, she may even get fed-up after a while, or you may eventually become grateful if and when your wife stops putting out.

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    Thats just nasty! ... How old is the mother??
    "Am I Calm? I am f***ing ZEN!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jakebullet View Post
    Thats just nasty! ... How old is the mother??
    My thoughts exactly!

    Let's say she had the daughter while young, maybe around 23 because that gives her time to graduate uni... unlikely the wife got sprogged up as soon as the mother, as most single foreign guys don't seem to rush to marry in Japan... say the wife had kids at at least 30... guessing they're still pre-schoolers... mother is in her late 50s, I'd say.

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    I wonder what hes up to right now. Damn it! Where is speedboat with those pictures.
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    Don't need to feel guilty... your wife is ____ing her father....bwahahahaha...

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    I tried to talk with her but she didnt want to listen. Now she is trying to arrange us all to go to ahotspring. we have dont it before as a whole family but I dont know about this time. I dont want the kids wrapped up in this on holiday.

    I think I might do a runner. Empty the bank and just ____ off to Hakkaido or something. I have my passport.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StaleEarlOfGinza View Post
    I tried to talk with her but she didnt want to listen. Now she is trying to arrange us all to go to ahotspring. we have dont it before as a whole family but I dont know about this time. I dont want the kids wrapped up in this on holiday.

    I think I might do a runner. Empty the bank and just ____ off to Hakkaido or something. I have my passport.
    What's the problem? It's not like she's going to suggest a family gang-bang in the rotenburo, now is it?

    If you don't want to ____ her, then don't. Simples.

    Oh, and by the way, if it's a domestic flight then you won't need a passport to get to Hokkaido.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pjb View Post
    What's the problem? It's not like she's going to suggest a family gang-bang in the rotenburo, now is it?

    If you don't want to ____ her, then don't. Simples.

    Oh, and by the way, if it's a domestic flight then you won't need a passport to get to Hokkaido.
    Yeah I know about the passport but if I have it my wife cant stop me leaving. I have quite a bit saved and the wife has a ton.

    Should I try and get some form the inlaw or just bolt. I have decided to leave a note for the wife explaining why I left.

    Maybe in the future she will forgive me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StaleEarlOfGinza View Post
    I have decided to leave a note for the wife explaining why I left.

    Maybe in the future she will forgive me.
    You will do no such thing. Telling your wife will only massage your own guilt, and she may well not forgive you. Running away won't solve a thing. Man up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StaleEarlOfGinza View Post
    My In-law seems to have no guilt, she told me she "loves me" and is okay just being lovers Her husband is past the sex thing and is a severe alcoholic.

    Anyone been in a similar situation? What should I do?
    Some guys have all the luck. Why don't these things ever happen to me?

    I suggest you take up drinking. Get that little StaleEarl so knackered he couldn't stand up for Norika Fujiwara.

    If that doesn't turn the mother-in-law off, I don't know what will. Your whiny, self-indulgent personality should be enough to turn any woman off in this lifetime!
    Can't rain all the time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Call_It_Like_Eye_See_It View Post
    Some guys have all the luck. Why don't these things ever happen to me?

    I suggest you take up drinking. Get that little StaleEarl so knackered he couldn't stand up for Norika Fujiwara.

    If that doesn't turn the mother-in-law off, I don't know what will. Your whiny, self-indulgent personality should be enough to turn any woman off in this lifetime!
    Have you seen that new commercial where she's (Norika, not the OP's MILILF) dancing around??? - hard to believe she is 38!
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    Tell the MILILF that you have STD.
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    I'm really feeling for the father in law here State Earl....

    really think the right thing for you to do is get him liquored up, take away his glasses then reenter the room in his wife's kimono and a wig. A quick 1/4 of an hour won't kill you and everyone will feel better in the end.

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    You should start to have failures - don't finish, and if at all possible - limp up before she has hers. If it isn't satisfying her, she will lose interest fast.

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    agree 100% with tjrandom - good sex is the fuel for most affairs, if your performance fails you'll still be able to have a non sexual, normal relationship with your m-i-l

    buttttttt....this seems like a troll thread anyway

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    Quote Originally Posted by paradoxbox View Post

    buttttttt....this seems like a troll thread anyway
    Noooo????!!!!!
    Really?!

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    There is a simple solution to all of this. DISPOSE OF EVERYONE. And then swim to China.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brenms View Post
    There is a simple solution to all of this. DISPOSE OF EVERYONE. And then swim to China.
    South Korea is closer, but not much friendlier...
    Can't rain all the time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brenms View Post
    There is a simple solution to all of this. DISPOSE OF EVERYONE. And then swim to China.
    Can trolls swim?






    I thought they had to go over troll bridges...

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    Hi.
    I'm having sexual relations with stray neighborhood cats.

    Is this wrong?

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    Dude I think the best advice is to slowly ebb your interest and set a few more rules so that in time, she begins to think it's too complicated being involved with her daughter's husband, or so that it's just a rare occassion that you have to ____ around.

    Good luck with that haha. Hopefully horniness runs in the family

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    Quote Originally Posted by PurpleDaisies View Post
    Can trolls swim?






    I thought they had to go over troll bridges...
    I can swim

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    Quote Originally Posted by YokohamaTommy View Post
    Hi.
    I'm having sexual relations with stray neighborhood cats.

    Is this wrong?
    Well its sordid admitting this. It wasnt quite what I was going through.

    Still havent figured out how I can bolt yet

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