My mother-in-law has been teasing me in a sexual manner for a couple of years. She would make innuendos about me, comment about how handsome I was and other small things like that. I am pretty sure its normal in Japan but Poking, touching, feeling, etc..??.. Finally one day at a family party we were kind of tipsy and I half jokingly suggested she would make a good wife because of her cooking and that we have a kind of husband/wife tension. She got serious and said nobody would have to know. This happened around Christmas about 3 years ago
Well, I finally acted on it about 3 months ago and have been having regular sex with her ever since. This has brought on the worst feelings of guilt I have ever felt. To make matters worse, the sex is ____ing good which makes me feel even guiltier
My In-law keeps telling me that nobody has to know and that we can continue but I want to break it off and come clean. I just don't know how to broach the subject. Multiple relationships could be ruined, taking the kids from their grandmother, my wife from her mother and me from everyone. I am an English teacher at the moment and can’t afford to move away. We are doing the nisetaijyutaku and I just need these things tosettle down. .
I wish it would just stop and things go on like normal My In-law seems to have no guilt, she told me she "loves me" and is okay just being lovers Her husband is past the sex thing and is a severe alcoholic. This is just too much to handle.
Anyone been in a similar situation? What should I do?