In Law Affair

[Brenms]

Hi.
I'm having sexual relations with stray neighborhood cats.

Is this wrong?

No, we're on the same boat.

[steki47]

There's a daddy-daughter series and a mommy-son series if that's your thing on xhamster.com - just search for "game show"

I saw that on xvideos, funny series. Mostly mother/son, which makes more sense in Japan.

What a thread!

[hml]

I saw that on xvideos, funny series. Mostly mother/son, which makes more sense in Japan.

What a thread!

What a thread indeed! But I don't get why mother/son makes more sense in Japan. Plz enlighten.

[Call_It_Like_Eye_See_It]

What a thread indeed! But I don't get why mother/son makes more sense in Japan. Plz enlighten.

It's the whole, socially-inept, entrance exam panicked son whose mother goes to extreme length - or gets her son to some - to reward him for his studies....

Then the son schools the mom more than his whole, socially-inept, karoushi-driven father ever could..!

Don't ask me how I know all this.....

[hml]

Don't ask me how I know all this.....

Of course not. But if one where to ask someone else who knew, what might that person say?

[steki47]

What a thread indeed! But I don't get why mother/son makes more sense in Japan. Plz enlighten.

A lot of Japanese fathers have almost no relationship with their children.

Mothers often focus all their energies on their sons and a lot of Japanese guys are closet mama's boys.

[YokohamaTommy]

I saw that on xvideos, funny series. Mostly mother/son, which makes more sense in Japan.

What a thread!

Ew,
Ew.
AND YET MORE ew.
I give unto thee, a plethora of ews.

Does the nastiness ever cease in this land?
Methinks no.

[hml]

There's a daddy-daughter series and a mommy-son series if that's your thing on xhamster.com - just search for "game show"

Ew,
Ew.
AND YET MORE ew.
I give unto thee, a plethora of ews.

Does the nastiness ever cease in this land?
Methinks no.

Well, if it's any consolation, I'm sure *those* videos were fake. Which means those guys were getting it on with much younger girls. Either way you shave it, it's pretty nice.

[Jakebullet]

Well, if it's any consolation, I'm sure *those* videos were fake. Which means those guys were getting it on with much younger girls. Either way you shave it, it's pretty nice.

I have heard of some actual "twins 3P" and "mother daughter 3P stuff" I have seen the boxes and they put their names too.

[Brenms]

I saw that on xvideos, funny series. Mostly mother/son, which makes more sense in Japan.

What a thread!

Yeah, Wow! Small world eh? Everyone's watching the same porn!

[hml]

Yeah, Wow! Small world eh? Everyone's watching the same porn!

Here's a thought: and they're all climaxing at the same time, too!

[HelgenX]

My mother-in-law has been teasing me in a sexual manner for a couple of years. She would make innuendos about me, comment about how handsome I was and other small things like that. I am pretty sure its normal in Japan but Poking, touching, feeling, etc..??.. Finally one day at a family party we were kind of tipsy and I half jokingly suggested she would make a good wife because of her cooking and that we have a kind of husband/wife tension. She got serious and said nobody would have to know. This happened around Christmas about 3 years ago

Well, I finally acted on it about 3 months ago and have been having regular sex with her ever since. This has brought on the worst feelings of guilt I have ever felt. To make matters worse, the sex is ____ing good which makes me feel even guiltier

My In-law keeps telling me that nobody has to know and that we can continue but I want to break it off and come clean. I just don't know how to broach the subject. Multiple relationships could be ruined, taking the kids from their grandmother, my wife from her mother and me from everyone. I am an English teacher at the moment and can’t afford to move away. We are doing the nisetaijyutaku and I just need these things tosettle down. .
I wish it would just stop and things go on like normal My In-law seems to have no guilt, she told me she "loves me" and is okay just being lovers Her husband is past the sex thing and is a severe alcoholic. This is just too much to handle.

Anyone been in a similar situation? What should I do?

You left out a very crucial tidbit of information necessary for a proper reply: How's the sex?

[hml]

You left out a very crucial tidbit of information necessary for a proper reply: How's the sex?

No, it was there.

...to make matters worse, the sex is ____ing good ...

[Wavey Man]

How old is this woman? How often are you servicing her? Who initiated this? I guess your wife wasn't putting out and your needs got the better of you? I'm not judging, but the question is how to manage now?

My advice: keep things going along smoothly and think of your kids; they are innocent victims of two horny adults and need to be protected from the fallout of your actions.

Get into the Japanese groove man, read Apogee's posts! ;-) (I'm only half joking!) Yes, I know you're in one now, I mean the other one. This is just a bodily function in Japan. "Strangers begin at home" as their old saying goes. These people are close to nature. You're making two women happy not one. Think of it as an act of charity, but not too much! Yes, you should feel guilty, but now you have to do damage control in my opinion. Ever wonder why your MIL doesn't seem to feel guilty? Does that tell you something about how sex is perceived? We've all heard of the mothers servicing their sons so they can "concentrate on their studies". No, it's not just a stupid AV plot, it's an example of a different attitude to sexual matters. Very hard for Westerners to get their heads around but you're living it. How much do we really know of what goes on in such a different society? One that sees what it wants to see and tells only what it wants to tell?

She's been wanting this for a long time. Now, does that mean some gaijin could have picked her up on the street? I doubt it. She feels comfortable with you because you're in the family. Look, if her life has been like a lot of Japanese mothers, she deserves a bit of lovin' IMO. She probably does an awful lot for you and your wife and kids. If this makes her happy, then I say give it to her and hard. She will be eternally grateful as Ben Franklin said!

Anyway, you know what kind of people you're dealing with, we don't, unless you give us some more ideas.

Things may change in the future, you and your wife may move away, MIL may have a stroke tomorrow, you just never know.

You could talk to her and explain how you feel and see if you can work it out with her, but I'm guessing you made the first move and so she's going to be pissed if you pull out now - pun intended, she can't help but be, she's tasted the forbidden fruit, which she may never have had in her whole life. Whether her "pissed-offedness" will extend to telling your wife or just making life difficult for you from hereon out is hard to tell. Your call, but remember the furies! She could easily screw things up for you by making up stories about you and telling your wife, even if she doesn't tell her about the sex. She'll guess you won't be the one to tell your wife no matter what she does, and there's the kids holding you as well.

Look, the time is going to come when she may lose interest or you will and this may just die a natural death so to speak. You gain nothing from backing out now except trying to make yourself feel better at everyone else's expense. Forget it! And enjoy the guilty pleasure, because the guilt lasts longer than the pleasure anyway. And when it's over you can look back and at least know you made her happy for a few years, a woman who probably stayed with her drunk husband for the sake of her kid(s) and sublimated all her needs for them.

The least hurt is for you to just absorb the guilt as the price you have to pay for taking this on and try to get your head turned around so that it doesn't mess you up. If your wife is going to focus on the kids and forget you for a few years, you may be very glad of your MIL's attentions, at least physically. Try to shed the guilt for now. You've got the rest of your life to deal with that and time does heal. Just let it stoke your male fires for now.

If you're making her happy, you can use that and you probably should use that to extend your dominance discreetly.

If you can find another gaijin to pass her off to, then that's another way out. Hell, she might even like him better and when he's gone you can find her another!

Or you could try putting something in her food to reduce her desire I suppose!

Hope that helps and DON'T RUN AWAY!

[lazzaris]

Dude, you and your mother-in-law are so dirty. How can you look to your kids and wife?! I'm not a conservative christian , neither christian or linked to any kind of religion, but I'm sorry, this is really out of reality.
My sugestion is: Commit suicide, you and you mother-in-law(she don't deserve to be called mother)

Now I would like to know how it would be if you discover that your wife is cheating you with your father?!

[Deathblob]

My sugestion is: Commit suicide, you and you mother-in-law!

Well, that's not very Christian of you!

[TJrandom]

Well, that's not very Christian of you!

Um, actually it is - quite Christian of him. Christians think they know what is best for everyone and that they have a right - no, an obligation to tell them what to do. Of course they are free to exclude themselves from that same advice - but giving the advice, even to kill oneself, is very Christian.

[Wonky]

I feel like I need to take a shower after reading this thread.

[TJrandom]

I feel like I need to take a shower after reading this thread.

It leaves you feeling hot and bothered? What, no mother-in-law to provide some satisfaction?

[lazzaris]

Well, that's not very Christian of you!

Um, actually it is - quite Christian of him. Christians think they know what is best for everyone and that they have a right - no, an obligation to tell them what to do. Of course they are free to exclude themselves from that same advice - but giving the advice, even to kill oneself, is very Christian.

Dudes, ____ off with your Christianity. I'm not a dumb-arse-american-christian.
This is just to dirt for anyone with maturity.
Imagine your father ____ing your wife, is that normal for you?
Maybe for you guys, it is, but not for me.

[metalli-kurisu]

Um, actually it is - quite Christian of him. Christians think they know what is best for everyone and that they have a right - no, an obligation to tell them what to do. Of course they are free to exclude themselves from that same advice - but giving the advice, even to kill oneself, is very Christian.

Yep. People who insist on doling out the advice are almost always the ones who can't take it themselves. ______s.

Cool thread by the way, and username!

Does she do anal?

[Deathblob]

Dudes, ____ off with your Christianity. I'm not a dumb-arse-american-christian.

You a Muslim then? I'm not getting much of a anarcho-libertarian vibe off your posts.

This is just to dirt for anyone with maturity.
Imagine your father ____ing your wife, is that normal for you?
Maybe for you guys, it is, but not for me.

Normal? No. Mad props for his awesome game if he managed to pull it off, though.

I don't understand your line of reasoning. Are you also grossed out by thoughts of having sex with your wife's sister? How about a 3some with your wife and her sister together?

Hold on ... epiphany coming ... ARE YOU AN ACTUAL FEMALE ON THE INTERNET?