How to be not nice to girlfriend

[Jenks]

Women with zero self esteem are my favorite. They will enragedly defend their boyfriend who beat, battered, and drove away dragging them not minutes before like it's my fault/concern or problem. Those women get everything coming to them unfortunately :/

[DavidStar]

uhm yeah ........

[DavidStar]

err...Im still in my 20's and the others are right youre a c u n t to realise a joke or a harmless flirt.

Nice to meet you.

[Bella Bowtruckle]

Looks like you don't need anybody's help to stop being 'so nice' after all. Bit uncalled for, especially as she's not American (or fat I imagine).

[DavidStar]

Thanks Kansai Ben and Wavey Man. Your advice helped me.

[KansaiBen]

Thanks Kansai Ben and Wavey Man. Your advice helped me.

Just as well you learned your lesson now and not have to wait 20 years like I had to.

Big part of my marriage breakdown was in part a failure and unwillingness to listen to communicate with each other and to deal with differing expectations honestly and candidly rather than get caught up in feelings wounded pride and ego. It takes two to tango in a relationship and its not always one person's fault but you must be prepared to accept your part of the blame, which is hard to do when you are in the middle of it.

[KansaiBen]

So guys, had a speak out, she came back to me, she appolozed for her moodiness. She needed some time alone. Her problem was that she is afraid she can't live up to me, as she thinks I am too good for her. I told her how I feel about her and that what counts is that she try to understand me and if we have problem we should speak and not keep them inside us.
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I think to be honest you should get away from this idea of being superior or inferior to the other as its counter-productive. If you should get hit with a stroke, are confined to a wheelchair and need to be fed with a spoon such ideas of superiority fly out the window. Once you are dead it makes no difference anyway.


Successful relationships are about treating each other as equals, showing mutual respect and not playing mind games with each other.

[HarryHurry]

Thanks Kansai Ben and Wavey Man. Your advice helped me.

Hats off to ya, matey, this is your best one yet. It beggars belief that you've still getting deep and serious replies, but maybe that says more about those replying than your trolling. Go figure, eh...?

P.S. Given the obviously deeply-felt need for some posters to pour out hearts and souls to a troll post, may I suggest GP open up an Agony Aunt section?

[HarryHurry]

Thanks Kansai Ben and Wavey Man. Your advice helped me.

Here ya go...

[Wavey Man]

Just as well you learned your lesson now and not have to wait 20 years like I had to.

Big part of my marriage breakdown was in part a failure and unwillingness to listen to communicate with each other and to deal with differing expectations honestly and candidly rather than get caught up in feelings wounded pride and ego. It takes two to tango in a relationship and its not always one person's fault but you must be prepared to accept your part of the blame, which is hard to do when you are in the middle of it.

Ah, yes! The pride and ego - none of us are immune to that methinks. You'd have to be the flippin' Dalai Lama not to get bent out of shape sometimes. And I'm not entirely sure about him either.

Glad you're getting some help off-camera DS, or in-camera I guess we should say. ;-)

Depends what you mean by clingy doesn't it? Sounds like her expectations of males are not high and she'd prefer a degree of distance in the relationship. Probably a legacy of the vanishing father and quite understandable.

[Jenks]

Ah crimeny. I don't get why the subject of marriage is coming up in a dating thread for a 21 year old... lol

Methinks you lend too much weight to the issue. You'll see in time. And this is also (a small) part of the problem...

[Jakebullet]

So guys
....





BLAH BLAH BLAH.... IM A ____ING TROLL _______

.....

r" or just tell her nothing.

I want to give her the impression I dont really care and she will come back anyway, I know she is playing. But I am a bit scared she might be seriouis. But I cant imagine she breaking up with me, she wouldnt.

Crawl back into your hole.

[Potnoodle]

David Starr is one of two things;
A very stupid, weak and cuunt person
Or
A very clever, bored and cuunt person who is trolling...

[HarryHurry]

David Starr is one of two things;
A very stupid, weak and cuunt person
Or
A very clever, bored and cuunt person who is trolling...

THE OP IS A TROLL!

a TROLL!

T...R...O...L...L...!


FFS, I think the troll's got more brains - much more - than the dopes who don't want to see the f*cking obvious and keep replying with their angst-ridden posts.

Beyond belief, honestly...

[Wavey Man]

THE OP IS A TROLL!

a TROLL!

T...R...O...L...L...!


FFS, I think the troll's got more brains - much more - than the dopes who don't want to see the f*cking obvious and keep replying with their angst-ridden posts.

Beyond belief, honestly...

Maybe, maybe not. Does it really matter? If you think he's a troll why don't you just go and read some other thread.

You're not going to convince anyone by saying the same thing over and over again.

[D-man]

LMFAO
What's up with this I'm only 21...dude I'm 20! Falling in love or being in a serious relationship at that age is absolute BS! Tap that whore and gtfo...go for her sister or some ____.

Also THE MOMENT a woman has control over you...you have officially become a pussy, lost your manhood...I dont know what to say...just grow a pair and tap her one moar time and tell her gtfo

[jay-jay]

Her problem was that she is afraid she can't live up to me, as she thinks I am too good for her.

another free advise : you are too good for me. i have used this sentence a couple of times. guys here probably too. we all know what it means.