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    Cool I'm looking for a japanese girlfriend.

    Hello, I'm a 25 years old male who lives in South America, in a country called Bolivia. I speak and teach spanish, and really want to learn japanese.

    Well, I'm looking for know female friends with romantic intention to try a relationship stable. I'm solvent, professional with a good work position.

    I was trying a lot for know more people from, but is very difficult. If someone is interested, please inbox me.

    Warning: This is NOT for ____ or sexual connotations. I'm just looking for friendship, ok?

    If some users can tell me about japanese chats (like Omegle or Chatroulette for/with japanese people) I'll be grateful.

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    Would it be possible for you to take some time off work to study in Japan? I was exactly the age that you are now when I did that for one year in Kyoto. It was probably the best time of my life. I know it's not an easy thing to do and you likely have commitments in Bolivia but you wouldn't have to do it for a year. Many schools offer shorter programs (often less than 3 months so that people can do it on a tourist visa).

    Beyond that there's the general world friends network (comprised of loads of smaller networks in all languages) that's pretty good.

    Is there much of a Japanese expat community in Bolivia? If so just try to make friends with some of the Japanese people. Offer to teach them Spanish and guide them to some popular destinations in your country. Japanese women are far more likely to be open with somebody that they meet through a friend so just be kind and helpful to everybody and eventually you'll hopefully be introduced to somebody you like.

    Best of luck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sedster View Post
    I'm looking for a japanese girlfriend. .
    whose Japanese girlfriend are you looking for???
    ... and thanks to you well_bicyclically, you helped me a lot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sedster View Post
    Hello, I'm a 25 years old male who lives in South America, in a country called Bolivia. I speak and teach spanish, and really want to learn japanese.

    Well, I'm looking for know female friends with romantic intention to try a relationship stable. I'm solvent, professional with a good work position.

    I was trying a lot for know more people from, but is very difficult. If someone is interested, please inbox me.

    Warning: This is NOT for ____ or sexual connotations. I'm just looking for friendship, ok?

    If some users can tell me about japanese chats (like Omegle or Chatroulette for/with japanese people) I'll be grateful.
    It's not hard. Your dating profile is probably just as boring as your intro post here. (if you have any)

    "I'm looking for know female friends with romantic intention to try a relationship stable. I'm solvent, professional with a good work position."

    Skip that cause it will come off as too serious and awkward. Just keep it light.

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    Just stop. Why does she have to be Japanese?

    Fall in love with a girl because of who SHE IS, not because she's Japanese, Asian or whatever.

    There's nothing a Japanese girl can provide you that the local gals cannot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Duymon View Post
    There's nothing a Japanese girl can provide you that the local gals cannot.
    How about straight, eye poking, pubic hair?
    Opinions are like a$$holes...Everybody has one

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    Quote Originally Posted by oxymoron View Post
    How about straight, eye poking, pubic hair?
    Apparently you've never dated a french girl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wernst View Post
    Apparently you've never dated a french girl.
    Nope, that's one nationalty I've missed. Not really into European women that much, although I once had a german GF that left me wrung out.
    Opinions are like a$$holes...Everybody has one

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    Quote Originally Posted by oxymoron View Post
    How about straight, eye poking, pubic hair?
    If you put your glasses back on - you wouldn't need to be so close that your eyes get damaged....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Duymon View Post
    Just stop. Why does she have to be Japanese?

    Fall in love with a girl because of who SHE IS, not because she's Japanese, Asian or whatever.

    There's nothing a Japanese girl can provide you that the local gals cannot.
    Oh really? Then why does this very section of this forum exist then?

    Tell what you've said to many caucasian men (right here in fact) prefer asian girls to their own, and I'd like to see how they react. :P
    Last edited by nerdydesi; 2012-05-31 at 03:24 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Duymon View Post
    Just stop. Why does she have to be Japanese?

    Fall in love with a girl because of who SHE IS, not because she's Japanese, Asian or whatever.

    There's nothing a Japanese girl can provide you that the local gals cannot.
    Because even if koreans look like Japanese (they don't) they have western personalities wich could be a turnoff for some.

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    Default Ajum o_o

    Ejem... o__o; That's my way to say "hello" to everyone, ok no xD

    Well, if my first post here was "strange" was so because it was an experiment. I'm glad to know that at least read it xD
    Itself, to have Japanese friends (and a "romance") is a matter of preference, nothing more. It happens that there comes a point in every life where we criticize everything about our environment, especially in relationship issues. Sometimes think about "what if" is usually the most interesting to hang out, and here's predisposition 8D.

    In this part of the world Japan's pop culture comes in the form of documentaries, anime, music (J-rock/pop RLZ , I love X-Japan, Asian Kung-Fu Generation, L'Arc~en~Ciel, Suga Shikao and Bonnie Pink) and especially "doramas" (dramas). Apparently, japanese society provides order and a kind of thinking completely opposite to Latin America. It happens that respect, values ​​and strength of tradition in their culture causes the girls have a very peculiar way of life are and have a closed mind desperately seeking open and that, in my opinion (generally clear) makes them so ¿sweet? I don't know how to say "ternura" in english but anyway. It look too soft.
    It seems to me a girl loyal, generous, jealous and extremely nice. I guess, that's the reason.

    Well, I'm very sorry. I'm more polite than my first post here. Well... if someone wants to know more about my country, let me shown this video:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QgDwMmEI12s

    Here, images about my city.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7tt_b...eature=related

    ¿how many of you are Japanese? n_n

    "Hand of the King" (Handoftheking) I really appreciate your words. And yes, here there is a "Japanese Society" which is a kind of alternative organization to the Embassy, ​​but how their members (who are descendants of Japanese who migrated to Bolivia after the World War II) contact, guide and help tourists to see the country. They are a bit closed, the truth, and the only way I have to relate to them is through work, but not to the degree or level I would like. Unfortunately for me, with whom I have a friendly relationship of cooperation Japanese (JICA) are much older people and events (dinners and lunches) are ... eh ... xD mature. Also by the availability of time I have I is complicated. Attracts me but the idea of ​​having a penpal for now and preferably living in Japan and teach me things in a personalized way is better now.
    I would love to be in Japan a short time. I long for that since I have 17 years.
    Do you think it was possible to contact a Bolivian community in Japan with any group on Google or Facebook? Or preferably, Japanese seek to know Latin America (especially Bolivia, ;D) from the web is really difficult to contact them. Everything to know Japanese is tight! It is very strange.
    Thank you for your words =) Where are you from?

    Hey everyone! Let's be friends ;D

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    I'm having a hard time taking you serious with all those smileys. Are you sure you are 25? (^o^)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Genkii View Post
    It's not hard. Your dating profile is probably just as boring as your intro post here. (if you have any)

    "I'm looking for know female friends with romantic intention to try a relationship stable. I'm solvent, professional with a good work position."

    Skip that cause it will come off as too serious and awkward. Just keep it light.

    lol, absolutely not true. In making the sale you must look at the product, and in this case we have a bonified bolivian with no japanese expierence. Authenticity is his strong point. Just be yourself man, you got it 100% perfectly right. Make a friend and expierence japanese culture in a personalized way. Girlfriends or whatever else will naturally follow so theres no need to search it out.

    Japancupid.com has a few girls searching for spanish speakers, but its a pay site. I'd probably go with those other websites. Have you started to study the japanese language yet?

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    Default xD!

    Oh jo jo jo jo! Genkii! Well I can not believe it too. 25 years is something hard for me =/. I keep my spirit as young as possible, I guess 8D
    How could prove this to you?

    Thanks for the comment, dear The Hamburgler. Just is what it is.

    By the way, where do you connect? (all of you)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sedster View Post

    Apparently, japanese society provides order and a kind of thinking completely opposite to Latin America. It happens that respect, values ​​and strength of tradition in their culture causes the girls have a very peculiar way of life are and have a closed mind desperately seeking open and that, in my opinion (generally clear) makes them so sweet? I don't know how to say "ternura" in english but anyway. It look too soft.
    It seems to me a girl loyal, generous, jealous and extremely nice. I guess, that's the reason.
    Dude, are you sure it is true? Have you been to Japan for quite long? Or you just happened to "know" it from movie / dorama as you mentioned?

    I am living in Japan for years and I met a lot of Japanese girls. Not to make generalization for all them here, but statistically saying.. Forget all about the damn thing they said in the movie (sorry for my strong language, I just want to stress the meaning). Japan is completely different from what they sell in TV, they just show the upside part of this so-called heavenly country. If you talk with all those Otaku out here or all Japanese-lovers-yet-never-know-what-it-really-is, surely you will get that image in your head. You talked about value and strength of Japanese tradition and culture? I guess you do not really understand what their true culture is and how to live inside that, especially if you are foreigner. Tips for you, find some threat about why some Japanese are trying so hard to get out of this country.

    And back again about the girl. I do not really understand what you mean by "loyal" and "nice"? I am here and I did not see that much different with other place, at least my own country. Have you ever heard about them being overprotective to their boyfriend and what they are capable to do in that situation? Japanese are awkward people, man. This is not just my opinion. Ask many foreigners who live here. Even Japanese themselves agree to this. They do not speak their opinion, yet rather to do something that sometimes quite extreme. There is a lot communication issue here, and all to blame is that so-called culture and tradition.

    But be honest dude. I won't blame you if you are telling that your preference comes from physical attraction. I do believe some people have tendencies to get attracted by woman with white and soft skin like most of those girls here. I am just sick of people saying something that similar to your statement I quoted above. And yes, many of my friends came to this country for that reason.
    Last edited by rmardian; 2012-06-10 at 03:28 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rmardian View Post
    Dude, are you sure it is true? Have you been to Japan for quite long? Or you just happened to "know" it from movie / dorama as you mentioned?

    I am living in Japan for years and I met a lot of Japanese girls. Not to make generalization for all them here, but statistically saying.. Forget all about the damn thing they said in the movie (sorry for my strong language, I just want to stress the meaning). Japan is completely different from what they sell in TV, they just show the upside part of this so-called heavenly country. If you talk with all those Otaku out here or all Japanese-lovers-yet-never-know-what-it-really-is, surely you will get that image in your head. You talked about value and strength of Japanese tradition and culture? I guess you do not really understand what their true culture is and how to live inside that, especially if you are foreigner. Tips for you, find some threat about why some Japanese are trying so hard to get out of this country.

    And back again about the girl. I do not really understand what you mean by "loyal" and "nice"? I am here and I did not see that much different with other place, at least my own country. Have you ever heard about them being overprotective to their boyfriend and what they are capable to do in that situation? Japanese are awkward people, man. This is not just my opinion. Ask many foreigners who live here. Even Japanese themselves agree to this. They do not speak their opinion, yet rather to do something that sometimes quite extreme. There is a lot communication issue here, and all to blame is that so-called culture and tradition.

    But be honest dude. I won't blame you if you are telling that your preference comes from physical attraction. I do believe some people have tendencies to get attracted by woman with white and soft skin like most of those girls here. I am just sick of people saying something that similar to your statement I quoted above. And yes, many of my friends came to this country for that reason.



    All crap that you figure out through personal expierence. Btw, not all Japanese are the same, there are very different cultures and groups of people within Japan just like any country, male and females.

    It's kinda neat to see where everyone is with their exposure to japanese culture through their evolving opinions. Either way, gotta take that first step and keep going.

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    if you come to japan, you have to know where you came from.

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