Relationship with older woman fantasy - homestay?

[Baelish]

This will probably get ignored and/or laughed at, but screw it - can't hurt to try.

My number one fantasy has always been a "stepmother's seduction" type where an older woman (in her 40s/early 50s) is taking care of me in her home, and she's lonely... a widow or divorced, and slowly but surely she can no longer resist the young, energetic white guy. Cue the porno music. Yes I've watched a lot of hentai and JAV, haha, so sue me. I'd make her feel good and appreciated, satisfy her needs, and she'd teach me a thing or two.

Obviously it wouldn't be a long-term relationship, but I think we could both have a lot of fun.

Well anyway, that's my fantasy. What I want to know is, can I somehow make this a reality? I know it's a long-shot. I'm not in Japan now, and I actually won't be going for a year. So I'm thinking my only shot would be an online penpal/language exchange. Then asking them if I could stay with them for a month or so. I don't know how many Japanese women in their 40s/50s who are divorced/widowed do the online thing though.

Any other options? I can't see how I could possibly pull this off in person while in Japan.

Before the trolls run in - I'm a 24 year old Canadian, decent looking, not balding, athletic, and I like to think I dress well. I'm not an English teacher - I own my own small business. I'm not a pick-up artist or anything, just an average guy. This is my first post here but I've lurked for a long time.

Alright, let me have it! Is this a pipe-dream?

[KansaiBen]

Before the trolls run in - I'm a 24 year old Canadian, decent looking, not balding, athletic, and I like to think I dress well. I'm not an English teacher - I own my own small business. I'm not a pick-up artist or anything, just an average guy. This is my first post here but I've lurked for a long time.

Alright, let me have it! Is this a pipe-dream?

I wonder why you think an older woman here would put you up in her house and eat her food.

Worse things have happened but by and large homestays are not that common, and certainly not ones where you get to bonk the host mother for room and board.

My advice would be to go on the dating forums and chat some up and take it from there.

[Baelish]

Well I'm not looking for a free place to stay, that wasn't my intention. I thought homestays were common and you had to pay room and board.

Thanks for the advice.

[KansaiBen]

Well I'm not looking for a free place to stay, that wasn't my intention. I thought homestays were common and you had to pay room and board.

Thanks for the advice.

http://www.homestay-in-japan.com/eng/

[madazzahatter]

.. Yes I've watched a lot of hentai and JAV, haha, so sue me.

Ok,first,is that your Japanese lawyer's name So-sue-me !? (Sorry,I couldn't stop myself)

Why don't you come over here and work as a nurse in a retirement home...
OR
Actually,why don't you lure the ladies to Canada to stay at your home ? You'd be able to set them free from their boring lives here in Tokyo and take them on wilderness hikes as well..

[hennagaijin]

That all sounds very reasonable.

Just ignore anyone who gives you a hard time.

Best of luck to you, Oedipus.

[madazzahatter]

Just ignore anyone who gives you a hard time.

...point of his thread is that he's LOOKING for a hard time,isn't it ?

[trip_hop]

He should get in touch with a poster called blooper.

Every six months or so, he starts posting the same fantasy, dreaming that Japanese housewives, mothers, train riders, supermarket shoppers, library lurkers and cafe queens would hurl themselves at his aging, non-Japanese speaking, bus driver body, and asking which train line, which hotel lobby or cafe, or which supermarket would be best?

But I don't think he's even made it to Japan's shores...

[rainbowtokyo]

He should get in touch with a poster called blooper.

Every six months or so, he starts posting the same fantasy, dreaming that Japanese housewives, mothers, train riders, supermarket shoppers, library lurkers and cafe queens would hurl themselves at his aging, non-Japanese speaking, bus driver body, and asking which train line, which hotel lobby or cafe, or which supermarket would be best?

But I don't think he's even made it to Japan's shores...

Pray tell us First Lady of GP, what on earth is a "bus driver body?"

[hml]

Alright, let me have it! Is this a pipe-dream?

dunno. is yours shaped like a pipe?

...point of his thread is that he's LOOKING for a hard time,isn't it ?

nah. he's looking to GIVE someone a hard time.

[KansaiBen]

Pray tell us First Lady of GP, what on earth is a "bus driver body?"

Here's one

[madazzahatter]

.....the first conversation between Baelish and Mrs. Tanaka. Here's a transcript(but don't tell Baelish,ok?):

Baelish: Oh my God!
Mrs. Tanaka: Pardon?
Baelish: Oh no, Mrs. Tanaka. Oh no.
Mrs. Tanaka: What's wrong?
Baelish: Mrs. Tanaka, you didn't... I mean, you didn't expect...
Mrs. Tanaka: What?
Baelish: I mean, you didn't really think I'd do something like that.
Mrs. Tanaka: Like what?
Baelish: What do you think?
Mrs. Tanaka: Well, I don't know.
Baelish: For god's sake, Mrs. Tanaka. Here we are. You got me into your house. You give me a drink. You... put on music. Now you start opening up your personal life to me and tell me your husband won't be home for hours.
Mrs. Tanaka: So?
Baelish: Mrs. Tanaka, you're trying to seduce me.
Mrs. Tanaka: [laughs] Huh?
Baelish: Aren't you?
Mrs. Tanaka: Baelish, I am not trying to seduce you.
Baelish: I know that, but please, Mrs. Tanaka, this is difficult...
Mrs. Tanaka: Would you like me to seduce you?
Baelish: What?
Mrs. Tanaka: Is that what you're trying to tell me?
Baelish: I'm going home now. I apologize for what I said. I hope you can forget it, but I'm going home right now.

[Genkii]

Haha I could've made this topic. You watch too much porn! I know it because I do too.

Japanese have a great fantasy, but all the "forbidden love" porn you see is fake ofcourse. A teenager ____ing his friend's sister while her busty mother is secretly watching and playing with herself is HOT but obviously fake.

Your fantasy is not going to happen (that's why it's called a fantasy no?) unless she's really ugly or you're loaded with cash. The problem is the older generation japanese have this mindset where the men is working 24/7 and the women is the housewive. They care alot about status and money. More then the younger generation. The women you talk about would be housewives and you have to be the main breadwinner. The chances an older women wants to support you financially and is also hot at the same time are really low.

You will also have alot of competition lol because alot of japanese men are まざこん (People with mother complex) and そうしょくけい (Grasseater)

That said it's not really hard to get older women horny because they don't receive alot of attention. So it's definitely possible. Just start slow. Contact all these women on datingsites casually. Start as a nice guy and later on say stuff like "Why is someone cute like you still single??" She would probably be modest and say she's too old or not cute. Then say you really like her. She will say she's too old for you, but secetly she loves the attention. Then say stuff like "Age is just a number if I was only a little older I would definitely marry you" From there on it's easy. Knock yourself out.

Your fantasy is definitely possible only not the part where she would financially support you lol. (unless you're a really good lover and good in bed, but if you are I would rather become a host and let them pay YOU)

Too bad you can't get a working visa as a host or I would have done it. Hitting on 30+ women is really easy because they dropped all their standards when they were hot and young. It's almost like a guaranteed victory.

PS: Can you pm me some links to your favourite vids??

[JoeyJoJoJr.]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iZnQP...eature=related

[Baelish]

.....the first conversation between Baelish and Mrs. Tanaka. Here's a transcript(but don't tell Baelish,ok?)

Haha, awesome, gave me a laugh.

Haha I could've made this topic. You watch too much porn! I know it because I do too.

Well yea it's pretty common. A lot of it is incest too - that's not for me though. :P It's the lonely widow/divorcee who hasn't had pleasure in a long time that intrigues me.

I looked at JapanCupid for a bit and the ladies in that age range are all looking for marriage and such (obviously, not sure what I was expecting), and I'm not looking to break any hearts or lie, so I probably won't bother. I might send out a few private messages and start slow/casual as you suggested... but I won't lead them on and soon tell them the blunt truth (not looking for serious long-term relationship)... I don't see that going too well, heh.

I'm not looking for financial support. As mentioned I'm a small business owner. I'd gladly pay room and board.

But yea... probably a pipe-dream. I'm still going to try.

[Genkii]

Then you should have no problem at all.

The "good" thing is Japanese men consider women at the age of 30 and above expired wich means they would date anyone aslong as they have a job. Even their parents would be glad if their daughter finally got married. Probably because of social expectations. I would rather have a good looking mature 35 year old then a 18 year old girl with a high pitch voice that gives me a headache

PS: PM me the links ;D

[Agitator]

Probably because of social expectations. I would rather have a good looking mature 35 year old then a 18 year old girl with a high pitch voice that gives me a headache

But the 35-year-old girl will probably want a man with an IQ over 35.

Popularly,
A.

[ThaHamburgler]

Haha I could've made this topic. You watch too much porn! I know it because I do too.

Japanese have a great fantasy, but all the "forbidden love" porn you see is fake ofcourse. A teenager ____ing his friend's sister while her busty mother is secretly watching and playing with herself is HOT but obviously fake.

Your fantasy is not going to happen (that's why it's called a fantasy no?) unless she's really ugly or you're loaded with cash. The problem is the older generation japanese have this mindset where the men is working 24/7 and the women is the housewive. They care alot about status and money. More then the younger generation. The women you talk about would be housewives and you have to be the main breadwinner. The chances an older women wants to support you financially and is also hot at the same time are really low.

You will also have alot of competition lol because alot of japanese men are まざこん (People with mother complex) and そうしょくけい (Grasseater)

That said it's not really hard to get older women horny because they don't receive alot of attention. So it's definitely possible. Just start slow. Contact all these women on datingsites casually. Start as a nice guy and later on say stuff like "Why is someone cute like you still single??" She would probably be modest and say she's too old or not cute. Then say you really like her. She will say she's too old for you, but secetly she loves the attention. Then say stuff like "Age is just a number if I was only a little older I would definitely marry you" From there on it's easy. Knock yourself out.

Your fantasy is definitely possible only not the part where she would financially support you lol. (unless you're a really good lover and good in bed, but if you are I would rather become a host and let them pay YOU)

Too bad you can't get a working visa as a host or I would have done it. Hitting on 30+ women is really easy because they dropped all their standards when they were hot and young. It's almost like a guaranteed victory.

PS: Can you pm me some links to your favourite vids??

Fantasy definately possible. And women desperate to "get married" are really desperate to "get anything" imo. Just talk, make friends, go out and grab some drinks, grab her ___ a little, she grabs your.... and there ya go. No need to talk about marriage or whatever other delusions you guys believe. But I'd do a few friendly dates before going for the sale to lay the groundwork unless shes obviously aggressive and willing.

[Baelish]

Fantasy definately possible. And women desperate to "get married" are really desperate to "get anything" imo. Just talk, make friends, go out and grab some drinks, grab her ___ a little, she grabs your.... and there ya go. No need to talk about marriage or whatever other delusions you guys believe. But I'd do a few friendly dates before going for the sale to lay the groundwork unless shes obviously aggressive and willing.

But the fantasy is more along the lines of her doing housework in a sexy nightgown... or me in the shower and she sneaks a peak. Lots of tension. Things like that.

Hopefully I can manage to talk (online) my way into them letting me stay at their place while I experience Japan. I don't see it happening, but you never know.

I should be concentrating on all the amazing tourist sites I'll be visiting instead of this - what is wrong with me.

[madazzahatter]

How about this one.....come to Japan and start teaching kids. This is a great way to meet MOMMIES ! All of the children's classes that I have are because I want to be friendly with the moms. This also gives you time to find out which of the ladies you just might have a chance with....just saying. As a disclaimer,may I add that I'm only offering advice....my love of teaching is why I teach,not the MILF factor.

[ThaHamburgler]

But the fantasy is more along the lines of her doing housework in a sexy nightgown... or me in the shower and she sneaks a peak. Lots of tension. Things like that.

Hopefully I can manage to talk (online) my way into them letting me stay at their place while I experience Japan. I don't see it happening, but you never know.

I should be concentrating on all the amazing tourist sites I'll be visiting instead of this - what is wrong with me.

In that case why not go with a dating site? Then say you want to do a homestay type thing since hotel rooms are so expensive and you can't learn anything. Play innocent, I'm sure she will too. Then go with the one (or ones, homestays only gotta last a month or less) you like the most. Some you'll score, hell maybe all. haha, it's worth a shot. Don't be a shy loser like the poster above who uses words like "can't" and then gives his quack diagnosis of japanese women every post. Get to work, start bating those fishing lines, and make up a schedule for those that bite. Of course, I'd not tell them I'm going to other homestays, I'd say your just "going to visit Sapporo" do the touristy crap etc.

And you can do all that touristy crap with your older woman friend/homestay. It'll help build the tension. Then have a nice dinner at home, a little too much alcohol, and bam you got a a week long shag-a-thon. Then you can ask her to wear a baking apron naked etc If possible take pictures (perhaps just mental) for the spank bank

Since the relationship is so new there will always be that question of whats ok and whats not. And once things get started then you can request she cook in a baking apron etc. As for the shower, if she doesn't peek in, ask her to grab you something, then grab her arm and pull her in for a from her until eternity type scene. If you can imagine it, it is possible, you just gotta set up the dominos to knock em down right

Id think 2-2.5 weeks each would be optimum. Still new, no time to get old and repetitive

[ThaHamburgler]

How about this one.....come to Japan and start teaching kids. This is a great way to meet MOMMIES ! All of the children's classes that I have are because I want to be friendly with the moms. This also gives you time to find out which of the ladies you just might have a chance with....just saying. As a disclaimer,may I add that I'm only offering advice....my love of teaching is why I teach,not the MILF factor.

Ever bang a mommie with a nice tight cooch? I haven't.... Sounded like I was trudging through a sulfur bog...

[ThaHamburgler]

PS: PM me the links ;D

Warning:

http://www.spankwire.com/5-Japanese-...3/#commentsTag

The link to the second video is on there too. The comments are pretty funny too. I wonder what hakubou means? And for Genkii especially

http://www.spankwire.com/Maki-Tomoda...d/video270053/

second url got forum censored, fill in da blanks with the obvious word

[madazzahatter]

Ever bang a mommie with a nice tight cooch? I haven't.... Sounded like I was trudging through a sulfur bog...

...own,but to answer your question Hamburgler,yes,I have and I quite enjoy it. Mommies Rock !

[ThaHamburgler]

...own,but to answer your question Hamburgler,yes,I have and I quite enjoy it. Mommies Rock !

How many chicklets she push out before you invaded the coop? Perhaps its keigles?

[Baelish]

And you can do all that touristy crap with your older woman friend/homestay. It'll help build the tension. Then have a nice dinner at home, a little too much alcohol, and bam you got a a week long shag-a-thon. Then you can ask her to wear a baking apron naked etc If possible take pictures (perhaps just mental) for the spank bank

I knew posting here was a good idea, heh. Awesome advice.

I will update this in a year when I'm in Japan. Please be like hentai... please be like hentai...

Just hope I don't run into a crazy who locks me in a cage in her house and siphons me for my youthful essence. Please don't be like that hentai.

[madazzahatter]

How many chicklets she push out before you invaded the coop? Perhaps its keigles?

Actually,I think Japanese doctors(being they're all men) do a little stitch work down there after giving birth,true story.

I knew posting here was a good idea, heh. Awesome advice.

I will update this in a year when I'm in Japan. Please be like hentai... please be like hentai...

Just hope I don't run into a crazy who locks me in a cage in her house and siphons me for my youthful essence. Please don't be like that hentai.

My first experience was actually along these lines....I was 17 and drinking(yes,I was a punk back in the day) with a neighbor and his soon to be ex-wife(she was 28 and they had one kid). After a few hours of hardcore drinking,he went upstairs to pass out and she said she had to take the laundry out of the dryer. I went with her to the basement,we talked and laughed and after she brushed me a few times,I just lost it and kissed her. I was waiting for a punch,but she kissed back.......so,I picked her up and put her on top of the washer.....and that,my friends,is where I'll stop so I don't get myself booted off of the forum like a certain fella from the west coast of the US that you old timers may remember. True story....we enjoyed a great year together doing things in every room of the house(he left right after and not because of me)in every position imaginable,before I decided that getting drunk every waking moment was more important than having a relationship.....I regret it a little now,because she was really the horniest woman I have EVER known.

[ThaHamburgler]

Actually,I think Japanese doctors(being they're all men) do a little stitch work down there after giving birth,true story.


My first experience was actually along these lines....I was 17 and drinking(yes,I was a punk back in the day) with a neighbor and his soon to be ex-wife(she was 28 and they had one kid). After a few hours of hardcore drinking,he went upstairs to pass out and she said she had to take the laundry out of the dryer. I went with her to the basement,we talked and laughed and after she brushed me a few times,I just lost it and kissed her. I was waiting for a punch,but she kissed back.......so,I picked her up and put her on top of the washer.....and that,my friends,is where I'll stop so I don't get myself booted off of the forum like a certain fella from the west coast of the US that you old timers may remember. True story....we enjoyed a great year together doing things in every room of the house(he left right after and not because of me)in every position imaginable, before I decided that getting drunk every waking moment was more important than having a relationship.....I regret it a little now,because she was really the horniest woman I have EVER known.

And that right there is how you know it's a true story. hahahahaha.

I had an awesome two year wait a thon with a sexy half chinese japanese perfect pear titty girl. Finally got her, had more than my way with her, i swear i thought i'd punch a hole in hte back of her skull this stuff was so crazy, but then got drunk for a month or so and neglected the garden and things went to shite. It happens eh But not to genki. Oh no. He's way above that stuff, hovering around 0.0000000001, waaaaaay up there

[madazzahatter]

And that right there is how you know it's a true story. hahahahaha.

I had an awesome two year wait a thon with a sexy half chinese japanese perfect pear titty girl. Finally got her, had more than my way with her, i swear i thought i'd punch a hole in hte back of her skull this stuff was so crazy, but then got drunk for a month or so and neglected the garden and things went to shite. It happens eh But not to genki. Oh no. He's way above that stuff, hovering around 0.0000000001, waaaaaay up there

...obsessed with sex,but it's true(sadly) that from high school up until I was around 26...I was drunk every day or hungover. Why can't I meet a sex crazed woman NOW when I'm sober !!!??? God is taunting me...wait a minute,I don't believe in god.