Pregnancy Trick?

[nothingtodohere]

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[Effected After]

You're maybe too worried, and he's maybe not worried enough.

Chances are you are fine. Women only have a small window I. Their cycle when they can get pregnant, and even then it doesn't always happen.

[nothingtodohere]

I always wondered when this troll finally wanted her oprah moment.

It took longer then expected

It's funny. Seems all people here who starts threads are trolls to some guys like you. ^^;
It's like you can't believe that unexpected things can happen to someone.
Maybe your life is just boring... how sad

[kurogane]

Calm down, chiquita!!!!!!

From reading your account, he probably isn't trying to get you pregnant by trickery, he is just so nuts about you that he isn't that concerned whether you do get pregnant, even by accidents like that, because he wants you and a family anyways.

Japanese can be refreshingly straightforward about stuff like that.

GF: EEEEEKKKKKKKKKKK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm pregnant!!!!!!!!!!!! What will I do!!!!!!!!!

Loving Jpn BF: Ooops, eh! Okay, let's get married. Luv Luv eyes...........

Also, condoms do fall off inside if you stay locked together after The Big Finish.

Sounds to me like you have found a really good guy.

Trust him.

Oh, and study hard and good luck.

PS Maybe you should just get on the pill, for your own peace of mind.

I don't say that lightly, by the way.

[nothingtodohere]

You're maybe too worried, and he's maybe not worried enough.

Chances are you are fine. Women only have a small window I. Their cycle when they can get pregnant, and even then it doesn't always happen.

Thank you for the answer. ^^
Although I'm fine now, I just thought that was a great coincidence, you know....

[ThaHamburgler]

Sharing with you guys my funny experience, but I need to explain the background first:
In Brazil, abortion is illegal (even in cases of severe congenital abnormalities) - you'll go to jail if you do it. Country with Catholic roots, you know....
Explained this, let's proceed:
I started my master's degree in Brazil last year, so I'll live here for many years yet, before I think about go abroad to continue my studies (yes, I want more! ).
But my J-BF talks a lot about marriage and home life. He also said that could be happy if would able to marry me much more sooner than that. But he always respect my decision, at least I think.

The funny moment:
Well. No needs to say I'm an affectionate latin and that sort of things. So, when we can meet, we make out. A lot. ^^;
But, a few days passed, being with him, I just told him that I wasn't taking the pills, because, well, we need to be far away for each other for months until I finish my master's degree at least, so I didn't think it's a need.
In this exactly same day.... we made out and, for some unknown, unreal reason, the condom was left inside me right after he finished. No need to explain what happened then.
I was totally in panic but he seemed calm and unconcerned (???), trying to make me calm down too and just saying: "it's ok, the things will end fine, nothing serious will happen!" - seriously? I wasn't taking any pills and nothing serious will happen? Is he infertile? -.-'
I took a morning-after pill in the next day, because I'm not a dumb. He's still not even a bit worried and don't ask me anything about it (like: "oh my I don't want to ruin my life and yours, did your period come?").
I just wonder now... seriously... if he did this on purpose. Or if I'm just too worried and feeling like I'm high.

That's pretty scary, especially the first few times. The window to get pregnant may apply to the 35 and older crowd, but from 18-22 they can get pregnant anywhere anytime. Had it happen a few times. Fertility is not a wise thing to gamble on. Glad you got the pill. Maybe he needs to bring some of those really small Japanese condoms next time so it won't slip off. And theres the possibility he wants you to get pregnant also...

[nothingtodohere]

Calm down, chiquita!!!!!!
From reading your account, he probably isn't trying to get you pregnant by trickery, he is just so nuts about you that he isn't that concerned whether you do get pregnant, even by accidents like that, because he wants you and a family anyways.
Japanese can be refreshingly straightforward about stuff like that.

Also, condoms do fall off inside if you stay locked together after The Big Finish.
Sounds to me like you have found a really good guy.
Trust him.
Oh, and study hard and good luck.
PS Maybe you should just get on the pill, for your own peace of mind.
I don't say that lightly, by the way.

Haha. I laugh about "chiquita"
I just feel sad when someone come with this talk about trolls. I wonder if they know that women can read foruns like this too.
thank you for your answer!
well this is surely is different. I guess, well, if it happened with a brazilian BF, for example, he would be probably in much more panic than me and asking about this every 5 minutes... haha ^^;
so his reaction just seemed weird to me. maybe I'm not used, just this. he's been very trustable, by the way. maybe I'm used to the trickery of brazilian man and too worried as you said. Seemed too much luck to find someone like him, so I though that maybe I needed to be wary. ^^;
I'll just forget about this episode, I guess. ^^

[kurogane]

Hey,

I played soccer with Brazilians for years; great guys, but the head games and soap opera stuff can get really tired to a standard Canadian like me.

Anyways, yeah, like I said, a lot of Japanese simply think that once you meet The Love, having children and such is the natural step.

It is a refreshingly natural outlook compared to a lot of Westerners, always overthinking stuff that used to be just cultural common sense.

Anyways, he sounds like a good guy. Follow your heart.

[pjb]

Also, condoms do fall off inside if you stay locked together after The Big Finish.

Sure, if you have a wurst which could double up as a turntable stylus. And supposing that it did slip off, the open end of the condom would still be outside the vagina. It's not as if the guy has to stick his fist in to get it out.

For the condom to be completely inside the vagina, it would have had to come off while he was still HARD. That would be embarrassing.

[kurogane]

Sure, if you have a wurst which could double up as a turntable stylus. .

I resent resembling that remark!!!!!!!!!!


I could see the condom staying put if it comes off due to natural shrinky dinky, whilst still locked in the warm afterglow of extremis passed.

Plasible, if not likely.

[ThaHamburgler]

I resent resembling that remark!!!!!!!!!!


I could see the condom staying put if it comes off due to natural shrinky dinky, whilst still locked in the warm afterglow of extremis passed.

Plasible, if not likely.

Isn't it plausible, college boy. For all the big words you bust out that I gotta look up, what would your graduate professors think. hehe

[kurogane]

Still, we always end agreeing in spite of ourselves.


PS even my university professors enjoy a bit of extremis.

Warmly,

KG

[PurpleDaisies]

I resent resembling that remark!!!!!!!!!!


I could see the condom staying put if it comes off due to natural shrinky dinky, whilst still locked in the warm afterglow of extremis passed.

Plasible, if not likely.

I think this is very plasible!
Extremis passed can be pretty powerful.


And men can have different amounts of growth (and shrinkage) which will affect the fit of the condom after the fact.

This is why it is important to hold the base of the condom when withdrawing after the deed is finished and shrinkage is starting to set in.

[ThaHamburgler]

I think this is very plasible!
Extremis passed can be pretty powerful.


And men can have different amounts of growth (and shrinkage) which will affect the fit of the condom after the fact.

This is why it is important to hold the base of the condom when withdrawing after the deed is finished and shrinkage is starting to set in.

I usually pull out and draw a map of Hawaii on her back or stomach.

[kurogane]

I usually pull out and draw a map of Hawaii on her back or stomach.

I love the aerial view of Hawaii!!!!!!!!!!

But yeah, what PD said..............as usual.

[lustig]

Sharing with you guys my funny experience, but I need to explain the background first:
In Brazil, abortion is illegal (even in cases of severe congenital abnormalities) - you'll go to jail if you do it. Country with Catholic roots, you know....
Explained this, let's proceed:
I started my master's degree in Brazil last year, so I'll live here for many years yet, before I think about go abroad to continue my studies (yes, I want more! ).
But my J-BF talks a lot about marriage and home life. He also said that could be happy if would able to marry me much more sooner than that. But he always respect my decision, at least I think.

The funny moment:
Well. No needs to say I'm an affectionate latin and that sort of things. So, when we can meet, we make out. A lot. ^^;
But, a few days passed, being with him, I just told him that I wasn't taking the pills, because, well, we need to be far away for each other for months until I finish my master's degree at least, so I didn't think it's a need.
In this exactly same day.... we made out and, for some unknown, unreal reason, the condom was left inside me right after he finished. No need to explain what happened then.
I was totally in panic but he seemed calm and unconcerned (???), trying to make me calm down too and just saying: "it's ok, the things will end fine, nothing serious will happen!" - seriously? I wasn't taking any pills and nothing serious will happen? Is he infertile? -.-'
I took a morning-after pill in the next day, because I'm not a dumb. He's still not even a bit worried and don't ask me anything about it (like: "oh my I don't want to ruin my life and yours, did your period come?").
I just wonder now... seriously... if he did this on purpose. Or if I'm just too worried and feeling like I'm high.

You said that you found out later that the condom was still in you.....

did you not choke on it??

[Uncompletist]

You should take it out if you haven't already done so. Otherwise it'll get in the baby's way.