I could use a little advice on how to proceed here..
I met a J-girl who's been in the states for about 10 years and is probably early to mid 30's at a J-USA mixer. We exchanged emails for a few weeks and she tried to setup to meet at another event coming up. But before that could happen a last minute hiking thing came up and we went and did that this past Saturday and had good fun together. No touching just talk. Quick hug good night. Got home, sent her a little email saying thank you, nice time, blah blah.. So next afternoon I get a text from her and next thing I know we're going to dinner and a movie on Sunday. We even go to a later show so there's more time to talk between. So again the evening ends. No touching just talk. Quick hug good night.
So we are meeting tonight for that event she had setup in DC. Not even sure yet if we are going down together or meeting there. So anyway, its only been 2 dates. I'm pretty sure Sunday was a date and not a platonic thing. I'm not quite sure how to proceed. My guess is that I just need to be patient and wait until she signals something by beginning to touch me a little? Maybe just hold on until we have a chance to really go drinking together (alcohol always loosens things up and she does seem to be trying to find an opportunity to drink together).. Do I do something a little bold and, if the situation seems right, ask her if she would like to stay in DC for breakfast? Personally I think its a little quick for that as I'm not trying to nampa her.. Something in between?
I know a lot of this probably has nothing whatsoever to do with being a J-girl but all my friends are worthless nerds and it would be pointless to ask them any kind of dating advice. :-P Sorry if posting a stupid question like this here annoys anyone but it *is* the relationship forum.. Dating SUX.
yeah, I know I'm pathetic.. flame on...