The dating game! Futile western techniques.

[chicago blues]

Ok, fellow GP fans. It's time to throw you hat or shoe into ring. What do gaijin try to do in Japan, to attract or impress Japanese women that doesn't get you anywhere. The same technique may be effective in your home country but often flames out here in Japan.

My nomination is the infamous gaijin that is convinced that if he can get her email or mobile number, he has got a new friend or GF So he has a closet full of contacts but when he emails or calls, he gets no reply,blocked,too busy and excuses. Or the "I have a BF,we can just be friends." Game over!

http://www.mynippon.com/RomanceNews0201/story12.htm

[Jon84]

Originally Posted by chicago blues

Ok, fellow GP fans. It's time to throw you hat or shoe into ring. What do gaijin try to do in Japan, to attract or impress Japanese women that doesn't get you anywhere. The same technique may be effective in your home country but often flames out here in Japan.

I Act like me. They find it interesting. So I won't be anyone else. Some girls don't like how I act, most do, some think its ..futsu.

My nomination is the infamous gaijin that is convinced that if he can get her email or mobile number, he has got a new friend or GF So he has a closet full of contacts but when he emails or calls, he gets no reply,blocked,too busy and excuses. Or the "I have a BF,we can just be friends." Game over!

http://www.mynippon.com/RomanceNews0201/story12.htm

LOL, I have been victim to that, but I was aware that it was coming though..........Honest.

[Shakes Spear]

Originally Posted by chicago blues

What do gaijin try to do in Japan, to attract or impress Japanese women that doesn't get you anywhere?

Originally Posted by Jon84

I Act like me.

And there you have it...an honest answer. And you were able to do it in just 4 words! It usually takes you 20 or 30 paragraphs. Thank you for being so candid.

i tell them how we do things where IM from, and how they could stand to learn from that lesson.

tends to work better near american military bases.

[Walter Plinge]

Originally Posted by Jon84

I Act like me. They find it interesting. So I won't be anyone else. Some girls don't like how I act, most do, some think its ..futsu..

I like to act like someone who is very respected in the Japanese community then replicate their demeanor to the best of my ability.

[vinod]

the clip can be useful for a speedy laid down on day 1.
http://www.flightstats.com/go/Home/home.do

Originally Posted by Walter Plinge

I like to act like someone who is very respected in the Japanese community then replicate their demeanor to the best of my ability.