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  • Western men vs. Japanese men

    For you, Shiratama Dango

    Western Men (in Japan)
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    - Generally are more hairy than J-guys
    - Except for that receding hairline thing
    - Many of the ones I've met have BO to varying levels
    - Usually have some inflated ego / exaggerated knowledge of Japan
    - Even if the conversation with them is interesting, often won't stop blabbing until they've forced their opinion on you
    - Do hobbies in extreme: too much anime, too much porn, too much running/cycling, etc. Not all hobbies are necessarily bad, but usually extreme
    - Have the yellow fever bad
    - But do seem more into gender equality in a relationship compared to your average J-guy, value sex even after marriage, etc.
    - Claim _____ size is bigger, but honestly with few exceptions or a black dude I haven't seen much to support this gross size exaggeration
    - Generally aren't as work-a-holic
    - Often have a better sense of humor
    - Can generally do enough housework to keep the place decent enough to bring a girl over
    - Besides drinking, are good about money
    - Can't do anything that doesn't involve drinking

    Japanese Men
    ______________

    - Look nice young, but often age horribly ala bloated faces/crazy eyebrows/balding/etc.
    - Generally don't have as much body hair
    - Generally smell nicer and have better hygiene until they reach the bloated old stage
    - Unlike what "Western guys" think, as long as you're not a tuna or the guy has reached the bloated old stage, they're pretty good at pleasuring a woman
    - But some might have irrational hang-ups about wanting you to be shy/innocent during sex
    - Sometimes too skinny or feminine-looking
    - Generally have the cash to wine and dine you well
    - Generally stop the wining and dining once you get married, tho.
    - Generally don't have any qualms about you shaving down there or not, period sex, etc. like a lot of Western guys have hang-ups over
    - Have the Japanese a$$ thing... I admit I'm not a big fan of the Japanese a$$
    - Excluding some younger dudes, most suck at cleaning or doing anything household related.
    - Sometimes also poor at managing money, like wasting it on expensive disposable fashion, brand everything, drinking, etc.
    - Generally value work over family
    - Can't do anything that doesn't involve drinking


    Did I miss anything? Honestly when I was single I could have cared less if you were J-guy or not. If you fall out of these generalizations, congrats!
    Last edited by mizutama; 2013-08-23, 12:15 PM.

  • #2
    I never bought too much into the pen!s size thing and although a lot of the male porn actors are smaller / small I didn't take that to be representative. Then my girlfriend went off the pill and we had to start using condoms. I'm not a huge guy, maybe a little bigger than average (I was in the army, I've seen more d!cks than a Thai prostitute). We were staying at a love hotel because we were traveling for the weekend and were dumb enough not to make reservations. Free condoms?! Yes! ...Yeah that thing went about half way down. The next box from the pharmacy were painfully tight and went down maybe 2/3rds. Now I buy the L size and they're *still* tight. Japanese porn actors may not be representative of the rest of the population, but surely condom makers do their research. A regular condom in America is an XL in Japan. That says something.

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    • #3
      The _____ size thing is always a funny one

      Recently my bird told me that her mum advised her that Westen men have big but soft ones, whilst Asians have smaller ones but they are harder and 'stronger'. This is from a woman who has slept with one man in her whole life, an Asian man who is about 5ft 4.

      People always wanna talk about the ____ though it seems

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      • #4
        Originally posted by teachteach View Post
        People always wanna talk about the ____ though it seems

        Look up "ŠOl" on Yahoo’mŒb‘Ü

        Last time I checked, the first few pages were all about ‚Ønis size.
        It's all they care about.
        Last edited by sleepycat; 2013-08-23, 03:28 PM. Reason: word filter

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        • #5
          Have lived with both. Married to and divorced from a white guy. Have live with Japanese partner for nearly a decade.

          Still struggle with the indirect arguments initiated by my boyfriend and his family. I have trouble navigating and understanding why it's kosher for everyone to laugh at my big feet or Japanese pronunciation, but unacceptable for me to recommend a different DVD than the one my boyfriend noncommittedly recommended.

          But all the same I can't imagine living without any of them.

          I hear a lot of people talking about how much more manly or good looking white men are. I just can't see it.

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          • #6
            I'm all for such a topic, I think it's quite interesting, yet, you're making a distinguishment between Japanese men from Asian men, but won't do so for Western men? That's just plain stupid. Everyone knows there's a huge difference between them. Americans, Latin Americans, Europeans, Balkan, ...

            That having said, any "western" man, as you put it, that has had protected sexual interactions in Japan will tell be able to tell you that the condom sizes in Japan are quite literally smaller. That's just a fact. And I'm not just picking out the smallest ones, I wish. I even tried the biggest ones they have, what's it this time around? XXL BIG BOY with the black horse on the front? Yeah, still smaller than their EU or US counterparts, believe me.

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            • #7
              For you, Shiratama Dango > lol, thank you!

              Western Men (in Japan)
              ______________

              - Generally are more hairy than J-guys> a bit shocking for Asians especially if they have black hair.
              - Except for that receding hairline thing> guess that's why they look older..?
              - Many of the ones I've met have BO to varying levels> tell me about it!
              - Usually have some inflated ego / exaggerated knowledge of Japan> pretty obvious in this forum..?
              - Even if the conversation with them is interesting, often won't stop blabbing until they've forced their opinion on you> Japanese opposite version
              - Do hobbies in extreme: too much anime, too much porn, too much running/cycling, etc. Not all hobbies are necessarily bad, but usually extreme> western otaku type loves Japan!
              - Have the yellow fever bad> as long as they don't put western women down, that's fine
              - But do seem more into gender equality in a relationship compared to your average J-guy, value sex even after marriage, etc.> love this!
              - Claim _____ size is bigger, but honestly with few exceptions or a black dude I haven't seen much to support this gross size exaggeration> let's ask them to post their photos here!
              - Generally aren't as work-a-holic> agreed
              - Often have a better sense of humor> hmm.. I'm not sure about this
              - Can generally do enough housework to keep the place decent enough to bring a girl over> culture thing? Men here don't usually do housework.
              - Besides drinking, are good about money> JMen usually leave finances to the wife
              - Can't do anything that doesn't involve drinking> same with J guys!

              Japanese Men
              ______________

              - Look nice young, but often age horribly ala bloated faces/crazy eyebrows/balding/etc. bloated,lol. Didn't notice that!
              - Generally don't have as much body hair> a bit of a turn off
              - Generally smell nicer and have better hygiene until they reach the bloated old stage> kareishu? Is it because of what they eat here?
              - Unlike what "Western guys" think, as long as you're not a tuna or the guy has reached the bloated old stage, they're pretty good at pleasuring a woman> from my personal experience,yes.
              - But some might have irrational hang-ups about wanting you to be shy/innocent during sex> but women here like to say; dame,yo,yamete..so defo a culture play,err thing.
              - Sometimes too skinny or feminine-looking> not just sometimes. They're too girly!
              - Generally have the cash to wine and dine you well> are we comparing them to ALTs? Then,yes!
              - Generally stop the wining and dining once you get married, tho.> lol, so it's not just the women who changed.
              - Generally don't have any qualms about you shaving down there or not, period sex, etc. like a lot of Western guys have hang-ups over> true!
              - Have the Japanese a$$ thing... I admit I'm not a big fan of the Japanese a$$> and skinny legs
              - Excluding some younger dudes, most suck at cleaning or doing anything household related.> not mine!
              - Sometimes also poor at managing money, like wasting it on expensive disposable fashion, brand everything, drinking, etc.> they're more vain,yes.
              - Generally value work over family> samurai spirit
              - Can't do anything that doesn't involve drinking> alcohol solves all problems here because they're socially stiff but yes, they bond through drinking together.


              Did I miss anything? Honestly when I was single I could have cared less if you were J-guy or not. If you fall out of these generalizations, congrats!

              What about western men are fat..?
              Last edited by Shiratama Dango; 2013-08-23, 09:03 PM.

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              • #8
                so who wins?

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by teachteach View Post
                  The _____ size thing is always a funny one

                  Recently my bird told me that her mum advised her that Westen men have big but soft ones, whilst Asians have smaller ones but they are harder and 'stronger'. This is from a woman who has slept with one man in her whole life, an Asian man who is about 5ft 4.

                  People always wanna talk about the ____ though it seems
                  That small hard vs big soft talk is interesting. My mother claims that too...


                  Originally posted by Uncompletist View Post
                  so who wins?
                  Western women?

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by theBrokenMonkey View Post
                    That small hard vs big soft talk is interesting. My mother claims that too...
                    Ive always said Its not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean, which is the most important part.
                    I don't know if mummy plum would agree.
                    Last edited by ume; 2013-08-23, 10:52 PM.

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                    • #11
                      I will also add, that while Ive done my fair share of "pickling" both western, and Japanese ( a couple of "don't fit either of those descriptions" too, but thats a whooole different thread) absolutely the worst men I have come across in Japan are either ...

                      A - The Japanese men, who think they are western.
                      or
                      B - The western men, who think they are Japanese.

                      It may be a mistake on my part, but by "thinking" they are the other, all they seem to do is keep their own sh1tty characteristics, while picking up the equally sh1tty characteristics of the other (EG - hes still a gobby, fat, arrogant american, but now hes a gobby fat american who also works overtime, like his J-co workers do, and insults foreigners on the train for eating a cough sweet, like his Japanese father in law does, and speaks Japanese like a 5 year old, like his Halfu Japanese son does.)

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by ume View Post
                        I will also add, that while Ive done my fair share of "pickling" both western, and Japanese ( a couple of "don't fit either of those descriptions" too, but thats a whooole different thread) absolutely the worst men I have come across in Japan are either ...

                        A - The Japanese men, who think they are western.
                        or
                        B - The western men, who think they are Japanese.

                        It may be a mistake on my part, but by "thinking" they are the other, all they seem to do is keep their own sh1tty characteristics, while picking up the equally sh1tty characteristics of the other (EG - hes still a gobby, fat, arrogant american, but now hes a gobby fat american who also works overtime, like his J-co workers do, and insults foreigners on the train for eating a cough sweet, like his Japanese father in law does, and speaks Japanese like a 5 year old, like his Halfu Japanese son does.)
                        Sounds like a swell guy. Why did you not settle for him again?

                        The boat and ocean thing was cool too. A version of the it is not the sizes that matters, it's how you use it.

                        I just went 2xOT. Sorry. My wisdom of western vs japanes men is not.

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by ume View Post
                          I will also add, that while Ive done my fair share of "pickling" both western, and Japanese ( a couple of "don't fit either of those descriptions" too, but thats a whooole different thread) absolutely the worst men I have come across in Japan are either ...

                          A - The Japanese men, who think they are western.
                          or
                          B - The western men, who think they are Japanese.

                          It may be a mistake on my part, but by "thinking" they are the other, all they seem to do is keep their own sh1tty characteristics, while picking up the equally sh1tty characteristics of the other (EG - hes still a gobby, fat, arrogant american, but now hes a gobby fat american who also works overtime, like his J-co workers do, and insults foreigners on the train for eating a cough sweet, like his Japanese father in law does, and speaks Japanese like a 5 year old, like his Halfu Japanese son does.)
                          This so hard!

                          My j-hubsband doesn't fit all of the general Japanese things I posted either, but some to a T.


                          As for the guys going, "But the condoms here don't fit my whole dong so foreign guys must be bigger!!" I think you are under the wrong impression that all Japanese guys make sure their whole shaft is covered. I've noticed at a lot of 1/2-2/3 in and we're good to go.

                          Also it's pretty much fact that most women rarely get the big o by penetration alone, but we sure can fake it if we suspect it's going to hurt your ego.

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by mizutama View Post
                            This so hard!

                            My j-hubsband doesn't fit all of the general Japanese things I posted either, but some to a T.


                            As for the guys going, "But the condoms here don't fit my whole dong so foreign guys must be bigger!!" I think you are under the wrong impression that all Japanese guys make sure their whole shaft is covered. I've noticed at a lot of 1/2-2/3 in and we're good to go.

                            Also it's pretty much fact that most women rarely get the big o by penetration alone, but we sure can fake it if we suspect it's going to hurt your ego.
                            Ouch! That hurts our ego if we ever find out

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                            • #15
                              I hope this doesnt sound like a personal attack but Ive always thought that women who fake it arent good sex partners. When you find a new partner you are kind of building that up from scratch so it's a good way to make things worse later on if you get me. Like if you were teaching me a language from scratch and didnt pull me up on the mistakes, the mistakes get internalised.

                              That a girl didnt climax from 3 mins of my clumsy animal rutting is not going to hurt my ego, if you like

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