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    I have been dating the most perfect girl for about 6 months.
    She is beautiful, smart, funny and very dirty in the bedroom. She is a good cook too.
    She loves me a lot and treats me like a king...

    I know I will never get lucky like this again. I think I used up all my luck just meeting her...

    Anyway, as unusual as this may sound. The other night she actually proposed to me.

    I said yes but all my friends have put a dampener on it by saying its too fast...

    I am 30 and my girlfriend is nearly 20...

    What do the people here think
    ?

  • #2
    Originally posted by livinginnagoya1983 View Post
    I have been dating the most perfect girl for about 6 months.
    She is beautiful, smart, funny and very dirty in the bedroom. She is a good cook too.
    She loves me a lot and treats me like a king...

    I know I will never get lucky like this again. I think I used up all my luck just meeting her...

    Anyway, as unusual as this may sound. The other night she actually proposed to me.

    I said yes but all my friends have put a dampener on it by saying its too fast...

    I am 30 and my girlfriend is nearly 20...

    What do the people here think
    ?
    Is this the girl you picked up on the subway, er, four months ago, or a different one?

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    • #3
      The same. It's the same girl that I met on the train in May.

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      • #4
        Strike while the iron is hot. She's still plenty young enough to manipulate like crazy and she will always be 10 years younger than you. Train her up to be a money making machine and put her to work. Then do the same with your offspring. The good life awaits you.

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        • #5
          Don't be naive, she wants you for your money or simply for the fact that you're cool accessory (look everyone, my gaijin bf.)

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          • #6
            Sorry but " the accessory angle (gaijin bf) " went out back with the 90's. Gaijin bf's are a dime a dozen now days!

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            • #7
              Originally posted by livinginnagoya1983 View Post
              I have been dating the most perfect girl for about 6 months.
              She is beautiful, smart, funny and very dirty in the bedroom. She is a good cook too.
              She loves me a lot and treats me like a king...

              I know I will never get lucky like this again. I think I used up all my luck just meeting her...

              Anyway, as unusual as this may sound. The other night she actually proposed to me.

              I said yes but all my friends have put a dampener on it by saying its too fast...

              I am 30 and my girlfriend is nearly 20...

              What do the people here think

              ?
              Why is a 19 year old in a hurry to settle down?

              What about college, career, traveling and endless discoveries..?

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              • #8
                Originally posted by iago View Post
                Is this the girl you picked up on the subway, er, four months ago, or a different one?
                Originally posted by livinginnagoya1983 View Post
                The same. It's the same girl that I met on the train in May.
                I too wonder a little bit about how you count here...

                Before I share, I'd like to say: This is really not the best place to get advice on something as serious as getting married. That said my (worthless?) "advice" is this:

                If you get daunted by what your friends say, then maybe you are not sure this is not too soo ?
                If you make the period from late until mid-september count as "about six months" then maybe you are trying to convince yourself it is not too soon? You should not need to do that.

                I married fast in my opinion, less then a year after meeing mrs. Monkey. It was a decision that made perfect sense. If it makes perfect sense to you to marry this girl after... well, six months, then to hell with the world and the opinions of others. The don't really know about you anyway...
                Last edited by theBrokenMonkey; 2013-09-12, 07:59 PM.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Shiratama Dango View Post
                  Why is a 19 year old in a hurry to settle down?

                  What about college, career, traveling and endless discoveries..?
                  Sometimes men get an urge to procreate, normally experienced men get this urge after 30 but those that are relatively inexperienced or still virgins get the urge the first time they get wet or soon after ! Everything else be damned the OP has the urge !

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                  • #10
                    It's the girl who is 19, mr Tabasco

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                    • #11
                      Why will happen if you say no?

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                      • #12
                        I have already said yes.
                        To be honest, I don't feel it's too fast as I've dated a lot of girls and this one ticks all the boxes and then some.

                        It's like that movie Wierd Science as its a though I was able to create an intelligent, funny, caring girl who acts like a porn star in the bedroom and can cook great.

                        We talked about the age situation but she says that she can't imagine her life without me. Though, she has given me one condition. She doesn't want to leave Japan. So if we get married she wants to stay and raise children in Japan. Which is sort of a no brainer as I have no intention of going back to Belfast...

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by Shiratama Dango View Post
                          It's the girl who is 19, mr Tabasco
                          Ooppss. Here I am just skimming comments again,my bad.

                          Originally posted by livinginnagoya1983 View Post
                          I have already said yes.
                          To be honest, I don't feel it's too fast as I've dated a lot of girls and this one ticks all the boxes and then some.

                          ...
                          Congratulations! When's the wedding?

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                          • #14
                            Wedding ceremony will be in July 2014. But we are going down to Kuyakushyo next month.

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                            • #15
                              Thanks you for the congratulations.

                              If anyone happens to see an average looking gaijin walking around Nagoya with a girl way out of his league give him a nod because it'll be me.

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